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First, nothing brings me more joy than knowing I help you succeed in your love life. Everything else is secondary. Helping you succeed is my number one passion.
And getting my coaching doesn’t have to break your bank. Every income bracket can work with me. Find your issues and find your classes dealing with those issues on the list below (get 5 classes for $399, it’s like 7 hour of coaching for the price of one). Many get engaged or get their exes back just by listening to individual classes here. They’re very affordable and I deliver results like no other coach you will ever hear or have ever heard and it’s not a claim. It’s a fact. An observable fact.
Your jaw will drop when you hear how many ladies get the men they adore to step up by spending less than $100 bucks on my products (results of course will vary depending where you are in your journey, no two journeys are the same) and many of those women have married and given birth to bundles of joy as well!
That’s the kind of care and commitment I hold for my clients. You can stay, get advice and learn as much as you need to in my fantastically transformational support groups.
The classes are from the Feminine Goddess Enlightened Relationship Monthly Membership that was first launched in September 2014 consisting two classes (it is now one class/month) each month: a relationship subject and a Goddess Interview with my most successful clients. Most of the Goddess Interviews can be purchased here.
This page list all replays of previous classes in the monthly membership that are primarily not Goddess Interviews (there were a few that I added here). So please check every month to check for newer classes. Many of the subjects will help you further in your journey toward feminine magnetism. The principles that I teach will truly shift your energy and raise your vibration so they are invaluable resources in the path toward personal transformation.
Once you master yourself, your relationships will be easy and smooth sailing. Problems will cease to exist because most problems start in the unawakened mind.
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Here are The Previous Classes in the Archive of the Monthly Membership, on Top of the Goddess Interviews:
1. You Are The Powerful Creator Of Your Reality
The basis of all great relationships start here: recreating your personal narrative and clearing up the fog off your glasses. This class addresses how we create our own reality. You see, according Quantum Physics, we create the universe we live in. How so? It’s because without our brain/nervous system this universe is a sea of nothingness. There is no physical reality to our universe. Our universe is made of 99.999% emptiness/space. There is only energy vibrating on certain frequency. All is created in the mind and our belief and expectations of what reality is help shape it. In other words what we call our reality or what we see are simply projections on the back of your brain. Yup, we are practically watching a movie. We literally live in our head. But the illusion is so consistent and consensual, we are duped to believe this is real, that there are solid objects, there is matter. But as a matter of fact, there is no matter outside our perception. When we don’t look at the moon, the moon is merely a wave function. When we see it, the wave function collapses and it becomes the moon as we see it. And when we sleep there is no universe. There is no bed and bedroom. When we are waking up the bed, bedroom and the universe are rendered again. And when we look away, the bedroom disappears into nothingness again. Our reality is pretty much like a computer game. Utterly shocking, isn’t it? The good news is when you realize this, you become free. Life is an illusion. Everything you see is an illusion. Even *you* are an illusion. Now you know this you can play whatever role in life you are playing now and make it fun without the emotional entanglement. You are a being of light, not of matter. If everything is an illusion, your suffering is an illusion too! Are you mind-boggled yet? If yes, this is the program for you and I will touch more on the subject on today’s class and how this can have a magnificent effect on your love life as well. My client LaToya said this about the classes she listened to in our ongoing program Four Components Of melting His Heart which you can still sign up: “Katarina Phang….I finished listening to the second class tonight and it was AWESOME!!! It is your book x 10. Looking forward to next week’s class. So far I have been blown away. Love it! Trust is a real hot button with men. My EUM mentioned how lack of trust and verbal disrespect were a problem in relationships he’s had.” And what’s more exciting is you will also learn from my star clients -those who get my method and practice it perfectly so they are in great, healthy relationships in which their men are completely smitten by them. You see, I’m interested in results and if results are what you want you can’t do no wrong by working with me as long as you don’t resist me.
2. How To Deal With Men With Issues…Or Men
All men have issues…and how they deal with their issues are dependent on how you deal with yours. Expecting perfection from a man is a sign of emotional unavailability. Listen to this class. I talk about a client who used my method to get engaged in 6 months (he was her EUM, didn’t want a relationship, etc) but then she started to get cold feet and over analyzing his every move (now it’s clear who is the EU one). Beware, my method works too well so use it at your own peril! Many ladies successfully get their guys claim them or commit to them yet they go back to their old pattern of reactiveness once they’re in relationship and the honeymoon period is over. They “bait and switch.” How to deal with your impulse to be right in relationship? Again, you don’t want to miss this class!
3. How These Women Get Their Exes Back
Is your heart bleeding at the moment cause you are missing your ex so bad? Many women come to me cause they are at a loss about what to do after the breakup with their guys. Lucky, after practicing what I teach usually their exes begin to reappear again in their lives. Some are talking to their exes again, or start to spending time together again and some got back together for real or their exes reclaimed them. Rinna is one those who start seeing their guys again. She said:
“After listening to Tricia interview (as a part of Goddess Interview of the monhtly membership, you can get it here) I must post how good things are working out with my EUM. He’s still out of town working but last Saturday came home for the weekend. He had to work at home both days but he wanted to see me Saturday nite.Like Tricia had suggested I’m open to date others and in fact went for date before seeing him. I asked if he wanted me to come over to his house as that’s normally what we do. To my surprise he wanted to come pick me up and take me to dinner! We did that and I went back to his house after and spent the nite.It was great as usual. He left next day to go back out of town to work. The next nite to my surprise he called me. He hasn’t in months and months. Then he texts me everyday. Then yesterday he asked me to visit him as I had that day off. I agreed and drove to see him.He filled up my car full of gas bought me bottle of wine and took me to dinner. He was extremely affectionate. I left this morning. I’m letting him lead and only mirror him. I’m not getting ahead of him either nor asking where we stand, etc. Trying to care less. Thank you, Kat for your teachings. I’m shocked they are working so well.” Rinna found me as an emotional basket case just 5 months ago. She was on anti-depressants and thinking of suicidal thoughts and has pushed her EUM away with her anxiety and clinginess. She signed up for ALL my programs including the monthly membership and her progress has been remarkable: she halved her meds dosage and now is off completely. She’s happier at work and attracts more clients and tips as a hair stylist and she begins to attract her ex EUM back as well.
She started a new chapter with him just a few weeks ago and each time she reports, things have progressed really well. She’s much more grounded and secure and stops asking anxious questions. Another happy camper is Nadya. She reported:
“Katarina Phang, you are a relationship genius! I am eternally grateful! It’s been two months since I found you and your book and began applying and studying your teaching. The best money I have ever spent! The more I have leaned back, the more my ex EUM continues to step up! I am amazed! I have totally focused on myself and my life and he continues to pursue me! He lives out of town, but he visits as much as he can. He recently came into town to take my son to a professional football game that was an additional 3 hours away.He calls and texts multiple times a day. I NEVER initiate calls to him and I initiate texts to him twice a week, before his football games to wish him good luck (he is a high school football coach)! All other contact is initiated by him, not because of anything I have said, he just does it!! Tonight, while on the phone, he said that he “absolutely adores me!” He said he is so happy that I gave him a second chance because I am the best thing that ever happened to him, and he was an idiot not see it sooner! He shared that being with me is different than anything he ever experienced! He says I motivate him to be a better man and a better person because I am so passionate about the things that I do! He said he is ready to push all his chips in with me. He shared that he was going to tell me this when came to see me next week but could not keep it to himself that long.My jaw was on the ground because I had let go of any expectations when I found Kat!! This from the man who was confused about his feelings for me earlier in year! Things were great in the beginning. He was a great guy to both myself and my son. I got really attached to him and I was leaning forward too much. I started asking him about a future together, and was constantly seeking reassurance about where the relationship was going. I feel disgusted just thinking about it now. He accepted a job out of town mid relationship and I clung on even more, he continued to pull away and I continued to lean forward to try to bring him back. He eventually told me that he was confused about his feelings and needed space. We were broken up for 6 months.Ladies, Kat knows what she is doing, read the book, do the inner work. This is amazing! I would have messed it up with out her! I did the work for me, not to get him back, but I ended winning in the end! Screaming Thank-you Kat, you are the Best!”
And here’s another one, Amanda from Portugal:
“OMG! Did he just invited me to spend New Year’s Eve just the two of us? He broke up with me back in March. We got back together last month.Last year, when we were dating the first time we dated, that was a messy subject. He wanted to spend with his friends (as he does EVERY YEAR SINCE GOD KNOWS WHEN) and I wanted to be with him. It ended up being a mix of both which was not what I wanted and I felt like it only happened ’cause I pushed. He was attentive and all during that night but It wasn’t his idea, you know?Just now he asked about my plans for New year’s and said he had a crazy idea. Went on about a nice place a friend told him about, not too expensive where we could go for two nights. I had to Ask him if he meant just the two of us ’cause honestly I’m beyond surprised. A week ago he said something about going north with just some of the boys, I said nothing and Even started to have some ideas of things I could do with my closest girls…Now this!This is the guy that left me in March saying he was not ready for a serious thing…He just used the word girlfriend. First time since we got back together even though he had already brought up exclusivity. Happy! ? “
Now here’s the good news, these ladies plus a three others who are in the same boat were sharing their experiences: what to do after a breakup, how they cope, how to survive the no contact period, how to learn to lean back, how to distract their obsessive mind from their exes, how to heal their painful emotions, how to move on….you name it…in this class. These ladies have proven to themselves that once they change, their guys also change, and so do their relationships in the class. So if you need morale support to navigate this very difficult time, you can’t afford to lose this call. Don’t suffer alone. Invest in this program because YOU’RE WORTH IT. You deserve to be happy and to learn all the things that can help you ease your suffering and find happiness again.
4. What Being An Empty And Boundless Vessel Means
This class talks about going back to the Ground Zero, back to where you start at in your search/journey. There is a famous Zen saying: “Before I studied Zen, I saw mountains as mountains and rivers as rivers. When I had studied Zen for thirty years I no longer saw mountains as mountains and rivers as rivers. But now that I have finally mastered Zen, I once again see mountains as mountains and rivers as rivers.” What has this got to do with love and relationship? Everything. This is the one class that pretty much depicts the end of “searching.” I haven’t really talked about it so much cause unless you are at ground zero it doesn’t make much sense. But this self-improvement stuff at some point should come to a complete halt when you realize it’s all mind stuff that you subscribe to and take as absolute. I no longer hold any conception of me (good or bad). I just am…empty, undefined and boundless moment to moment. I am fluid. My I-thoughts have been curtailed by 90% and when they arise, I don’t identify with them. And that kind of “mindless” existence is freedom. That’s what being self-less means. Get this class and explore it further in the lab of your own mind.
5. How To Soften Your Boundaries So You Become Non Reactive And Irresistible
Are you a ticking time bomb cause your mind goes into overdrive 24/7? You need this class yesterday. Softening of boundaries is my original philosophy that will improve your relationship like no other….OVERNIGHT! What I teach is, when you practice to a tee, will give immediate results as many of my clients have attested.
This is a very important class cause every day I read your posts on how you react on insignificant things cause you need validation (your ego is in the way). As many have you have learnt the hard way, it is in fact when you soften your boundaries you begin to get everything you ever wanted. These guys seem to want to give and do more for you when you stop being a demanding diva. This is why my method has been ASTONISHINGLY successful with daily testimonials to prove it.
This class discusses on why your relationship gets stagnant when you focus on establishing boundaries instead of expanding your conception of self that includes stuff that triggers you.
Problem with many relationships is when one expects the partners to be doing a certain thing or not doing a certain thing in the name of boundaries. It introduces unnecessary bumps that really don’t make a difference in the long run.
Most successful relationships are really between two people who accept each other as they are and allow each other to be who they are. This proves to be difficult for many women thanks to their insecurities, expectations and skewed view on boundaries. They set to change and tweak their partners instead.
I really enjoyed giving this class and the feedback has been really warm. This is truly one of my most favorite classes I have ever conducted and I’m sure it will help you align your mindset so it becomes conducive to attracting great relationships and keeping your men attracted.
“My man proposed to me last night. Thank you, Katarina, it’s ALL because of you. Will post a detailed one tomorrow! 🙂 I’ve not said anything because I’m so worried he’ll take the ring back because I’ve been leaning forward so much today! Haha. But will behave myself from tomorrow. 🙂
It was so unexpected. I kept saying “really?,” “I’ll be really mad if this is a prank,” “why do you want to marry me?” “Is this like a real diamond?” I’m *still* totally zapped and haven’t processed it.
THAT’S how amazing you are. I went through a million useless books on how I need to be assertive and value myself and not put up with his shit blah blah and it ONLY pushed him away further and further. Thank god I found you. He put a ring on that finger in exactly 6 weeks of me finding you.
I just read your book and the class on softening boundaries and becoming non reactive. It was really really bad pre-you. 🙂
He’s from a political dynasty, too, so being alpha the only way he knows to be. He doesn’t hunt or fish, though. He has a super sensitive side to him and is doesn’t eat meat because he doesn’t want to be cruel to animals. Lol. He’s not alpha in that obvious sense. He likes to paint and loves art and is very soft. Just his energy is very, very alpha.
We were constantly fighting before I found Kat. Is it bad to be submissive? Because he kind of likes that in me. He hates it when I’m aggressive.“ ~ Anna, India
“Ladies, Katarina‘s goddess call today was probably some of the best money I’ve ever spent. Lol I think we should be able to write off the cost if her teachings on our taxes. College expenses are tax deductible and her principles and teachings have been more beneficial than anything I learned in college.” ~Briana, Oregon
“Relistened to monthly class #5, “How to Soften Your Boundaries So You Become Non Reactive and Irresistible” today–Katarina Phang, it’s pure gold and maybe the best of all! THIS is how you become a chill woman. Thank you!
It’s true. I basically let everything slide these days, and in the past couple of months I get everything: the time, the affection, and the house. The more okay I am with whatever, the more the goodness grows. Thanks again and again and again, Katarina. <3 <3″ ~Kenzie, Atlanta
“Katarina’s book and class on how to soften our boundaries and not be reactive changed my extremely volatile 13 year old relationship into a peaceful one.
Earlier I would treat my EUM the way he’d treat me. If he was rude to me, I’d be MORE rude, if he wouldn’t reply to my texts, I’d throw a hissy fit.
My demands kept increasing and I was super high-maintenance and it drove him away. But he didn’t leave me because he said he loved me very much, he just became extremely distant and untrusting and less affectionate because he felt I was making him walk on eggshells all the time and that I was like a “ticking time bomb.”
I was a complete monster. I was always pushing him to do things for me, I would send him a hundred texts a day, I’d not give him any space. And when he’d pull back, I would get even more upset and get more anxious and act out. Now I just lean back and chill out and live my own life.
We work together, so I see him almost everyday for 4-5 hours, but outside of work I don’t hound him. For instance, earlier, I would start texting him as soon as he’d leave work. Random, pathetic texts to get his attention.
My whole life revolved around him. Now it doesn’t. I have a full life outside of him. I don’t make any demands. If he wants space, I give him space. Earlier I would hound him MORE when he’d ask for space, because I was so afraid he’d leave.
Now I’ve basically let go. I’m soft, agreeable, don’t pick fights and I mirror him. But to mirror him does not mean that I’m rude to him if he’s rude to me.
I’m very, VERY sweet and soft with him and it just makes him want to do more and more for me. He told me he was going to Vienna for four days next month. I was upset he didn’t ask me to come along, but I smiled and told him he’d been working so hard and that I wished he’d have a fun, relaxed time there.
The old me would have been offended that he’d want to travel without me and would have thrown a tantrum about the same. Because I was so nice and supportive about it and said that I just wanted HIM to have fun, he’s asked me a million times since afternoon to give him my shopping list.
I have softened my boundaries, I’m trying to be feminine, I let him take the lead and I just mirror him. I’ve had a couple of bad days in the middle, which I’m not very proud of, but as you can see, he has focused on the 28 good days, not the two bad days. Earlier there used to be 2 good days and 28 bad days.
I changed overnight after reading Katarina’s blogs one night. I softened my boundaries, became sweeter and nicer and more agreeable. I stopped asking for things and throwing tantrums. When I changed, he changed and became very loving. He suddenly wanted to do more and more for me. It was unbelievable.
I have read so many books and articles by others which say that we “deserve” a man who takes all our rotten tantrums. That ONLY works in a Beyoncé song, not in real life.
I’m very happy to have found Katarina and this group and while I’m still a work-in-progress (I threw a tantrum yesterday because I wanted his attention, and he said I was a “nightmare” again), I know I’m on my way to a happy, calm place.
My guy just sent me these texts in which he said that I was everything to him. I can’t thank anyone but Katarina Phang for this. A month ago he had told me he couldn’t stand to talk to me anymore, that maybe we were just a “bad mix.” And today, EXACTLY four weeks after I found Katarina, he sent me these texts. Isn’t this sweet? I can’t stop smiling!!
I haven’t stopped smiling for like half an hour now! I was so excited, I didn’t even respond to his texts, I just took a snapshot and posted it here because I’m so grateful! also, my jaw hurts now from the smiling but I can’t stop!!
I learn to lean back with Katarina’s teachings and a little bit of willpower. But it’s more Kat than my willpower, actually. I listen to her class everyday. If I don’t listen to it for 2 days, I’m back to my old ways. What I like about her teachings is that she’s very blunt. You follow her teachings to a T and there’s NO way your relationship won’t be successful and happy.
I’m actually shocked at how accurate she is in her assessment of alpha men. You HAVE to let go of your thoughts. Once you let go, everything will come to you. At least it did to me.
Katarina is AMAZING. I wish I had found her ten years ago. Would’ve saved me a lot of drama. But better late than never.
The class on softening our boundaries and becoming non-reactive is GOLD!!” ~Irene, India
You can now purchase this powerful class for $97 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
6. How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up
This class is making a wave all over the world!!! It shifts you so deeply and fast. It’s like my entire teaching is being condensed in one class and 90 mins!! This is definitely one of my favorite classes of the monthly membership as well! I have written about what being high-value is all about before but in this class I will dissect it more in a way -so powerful- that will fire you up and create shift in you like no other.
7. How to Lure With Honey When What You Want to Do Is to Kick Him in The Balls
An obvious addition to your collection. Your expectations are why your relationships have always been so hard. I will teach you the ultimate way relating to a man in a way that sees you as an exception. This class is very important because I delve further into why most women don’t get the guy. The Rules and all these other rules/strategies you read out there are based from the place of wanting to control and it will never work with men. Never ever. Only your softness and non reactiveness will do the trick.
8. What To Do If He Never Takes Me Out?
Are you at a loss because the guy you like the most never plans for a date? And you feel like a booty call? Then you don’t want to miss this 2-hour long class. Learn how to inspire him to invest in the relationship without directly talking about it or appearing pushy? And how the no-expectation part fits into this scenario? If he’s your boyfriend, how to inspire him to take you out on a date more? That’s a mystery question so many women ask these days. Truth is a man will do what is necessary to win your heart but if you are a sure thing before he invests in you, stay assured he will gladly sit on his ass as long as you allow it. Be the one woman who always keeps him on his toes cause he knows any guy will be lucky to have you and snatch you away from him. Be, as per my mantra and per class #6 above, easy to lose.
9. How Rotation Can Bring Out The Goddess In You
Many women resist me on rotation, not understanding what it’s really all about. As such they relapse after the first success or practicing leaning back because it’s hard to keep their emotional tank filled up relying on one guy who isn’t ready to commit. They go back to their nagging and reactive ways because they feel rejected and neglected. So in this class I discuss the nuts and bolts of rotation and how it makes your Inner Goddess shine. Rotation has been proven to inspire many EUM to step up. It is indeed a big part of my method. This class was a real blast. This should explain it to you once and for all why rotation is what high-value women who love themselves first and foremost do. Nothing screams like self-love more than keeping a rotation till a guy steps up and claims you. That’s how you keep your standards high without hardening your boundaries. You are easy to be with, soft and inviting yet you are easy to lose. If he snoozes he loses. You keep the guy you adore (who isn’t committed yet) on his toes knowing any lucky guy can snatch you away from him. So do you a have a “boyfriend” who can go off for 4-5 days without talking to you? Then he’s a bf in words only. Even my non-boyfriend EUM called me 2-3 times a day!!! You can keep deluding yourself or you can start taking charge of your happiness independent of any particular guy.
10. How To Turn Jealousy Into An Opportunity To Inspire Him To Fall Deeper In Love With You
Everyday I read in the group how many of you are playing the worst case scenarios cause he’s really not where you are emotionally and you expect him to! You think you can demand this and express your displeasure left and right. You are bummed when he’s not responding and instead pulling away from your further. You’re disrupting the process of him getting boiled each time you are having a jealousy fit. This class -like all my previous classes- will get to the nitty gritty of the situation and solve it once and for all. Even when you’re in relationship many of you often find yourself in the situation in which you feel entitled to control your partner so you can be spared from that jealousy rage. That is certainly not dealing with the roots of the problem heads on, you are just treating the symptoms. And the same problem will still rear its ugly head in different time and different places. Remember, through this class you will learn that each time you feel jealousy rage is bubbling up inside of you, it is actually an opportunity to show him how different a woman you are and through that recognition, he’ll admire you and fall deeper in love with you.
11. How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You
12. How To Breakup Proof Your Relationship After You Get Your Ex Back
Did you just get your ex back and you are feeling shaky? Or you are just feeling haunted all the time by the fear of being abandoned by your guy? This class is for you! There is no need for that if you understand the power at play here. Some of the ladies in the group did get their exes back but they broke up again before long. Part of the reasons is the same exact problem keeps recurring. If you have this issues or fear having another breakup, you can’t afford to miss this class. Some of the reasons that relationships go back to Splitville is you haven’t overcome the very reasons why you broke up the first time around. It’s like a demon that keeps rearing its ugly head. Your fear that you’ll break up again often manifests itself as a self-fulfilling prophecy. True to my core teaching, this is all the mind problems. Once you overcome the mind, you will be able to conduct your relationship from a healthier and more confident place that nurtures your relationship further. My classes are very empowering, addictive and transformational representing unique perspectives that aren’t taught anywhere else that make me stand out from the rest and are the reason of my extremely high success rate.
13. Why Talking Less Makes You An Enigma To Be Unwrapped That Makes Him Smitten
Are you the Queen Of Feeling Messages? The Queen Of Talking Like There’s No Tomorrow? How has it been working for you? This class is designed just for you! You need this class like yesterday (and you wouldn’t have seen him fading like a rainbow). Talking less is one of the whys my method works like a charm. Much relationship advice centers around communication, how to express yourself so you get what you want, etc… And truth be told none of that advice ever works with men! If it had I wouldn’t have been here on my soapbox. Men see talking from a woman as a means of control, more often than not. The more masculine you are the less you are inclined to hear what people have to say about what you should do. So this class will address why using a female POV on a guy will only backfire. You gotta meet them at their level which means to communicate in a way they understand: not with words but distance and actions! This class specifically addresses a term widely used in my method: downgrading. Many women are too scared to downgrade without having the talk first. I explain why it works so much better if you just keep your mouth shut. Counterintuive? You bet.
14. How To End The Cycle Of Toxicity In Your Relationship
Relationship isn’t for the faint of heart. It will shake, rock and stir you like no other. It will trigger your most buried wounds and insecurities. Hence relationship is the breeding ground for all your issues/wounds to come up and you will attract and be attracted to someone on the same level of woundedness so you can heal each other….or not. Many people stay in toxic relationship and are stuck in that cycle of codependency for ages. Till you are sick of it and want to change yourself, nothing is going to ever change. This class will reveal to you how your own toxicity will bring out the toxicity in your partner and it will re-enforce each other in a feedback loop. The same “toxic” man will respond differently to an emotionally healthy woman. My partner Joe was in this class to drive this point home. Why? Because he was in a very toxic abusive relationship with his ex. And this very same man treats me like a queen. We don’t fight. Same man, different women. And you, too, can change the jerk that he is by changing your energy. Whether a man is a Prince Charming or a frog, it pretty much depends on whether you are a ball buster or a feminine Goddess. You will be mind blown how simple and powerful my teaching is. My method has helped thousands of women get the relationship they want and deserve. Just a little tweak from this class will be enough to make a difference in your relationship. He will appreciate and cherish you for getting him.
15. Goddess Interview: Anabelle, How To Get Your Ex Back And Not to Become A One-Down After He’s Back
This class is also a Goddess Interview with Anabelle. The reason I put it here is because I coached her life on how to manage her occasional anxiety after she got her guy back so she could maintain her equal footing and not slide back into a one-down position (the person who is more invested in the relationship). She was having a drinking issue that caused him to pull back and she spiraled down deeper into anxiety that caused their relationship to unravel.
He left after a great beginning because he didn’t know how to deal with her drinking. They broke up for 10 months and thanks to leaning back they have been back together for almost 5 months now.
Things have been great -he’s been even talking about moving in and buying a house together- but she still has some shaky moments when she feels he’s not as affectionate as usual, expecting the other shoe to drop…again.
If you have are troubled by similar issues, you don’t want to miss this class because in this call I advised her on how to go through troubling emotions like anxiety without acting on it. And the one thing that keeps a man attracted to you that you must do. It’s 1 hour 41 mins long.
“I hope the ladies benefit from our talk, I don’t even know what I said! Thank you for the advice and kind words. Last night Matt jokingly referred to himself as my “husband” lol.
Love ya, Kat!” ~Anabelle, Los Angeles
Just finished listening to Anabelle‘s interview. Pure gold–she is so sweet and insightful. Loved this nugget “Nothing’s ever gonna be solved by freaking out” that Katarina dropped, too! ~ Kenzie, Atlanta
“The Goddess Interview with Anabelle that was recorded last week was excellent! Really opened my eyes about strategizing and controlling! I didn’t even realize I was living my life like that so much! Not JUST with guys I wanted. I think every email I sent last week was controlling- trying to get someone to do or not do something. Or do it faster. I never realized that was control. I don’t want to do that as much. And I don’t want to do that with men. To try to get them to like me or pick me. Gross. I’m done. Pick me or don’t. 🙂 I’m going to be grateful for what comes to me and chooses me. And let go.” ~Anette, Florida
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16. What Is Polarity And How to Keep Your Relationship Polarized
What is polarity? Here’s one of the definitions according to vocabulary.com
“Polarity is a relationship between two opposite characteristics or tendencies, like the polarity of two sides of a debate, or of the superhero and villain in a comic book.
Polarity can literally refer to a positive or negative electric charge. Less literally, it indicates something with two opposing but related qualities.
You might visualize polarity as a battery holder with a plus sign on one end and a negative on the other. More than just opposites, polarity suggests opposites that are interconnected. What would the light of day be without the dark of night? Good without evil? Yin without Yang?”
Here’s the definition by Oxford Dictionaries:
1. The property of having poles or being polar: it exhibits polarity when presented to a magnetic needle.
2. The relative orientation of poles; the direction of a magnetic or electric field: the magnetic field peaks in strength immediately after switching polarity.
3. The state of having two opposite or contradictory tendencies, opinions, or aspects: the polarity between male and female the Cold War’s neat polarities can hardly be carried on.
4. Biology: The tendency of living organisms or parts to develop with distinct anterior and posterior (or uppermost and lowermost) ends, or to grow or orient in a particular direction.
Now, can you see where I’m going with this?
I’m the expert in feminine/masculine dynamics and in implementation of polarity in relationship.
Polarity is the way of nature. You see it in every aspect of life: night and day, strong and soft, masculine and feminine.
Relationships -even gay relationships- need polarity to survive. The reason my teaching has been so successful is because it follows this very principle religiously.
To attract masculine men and to keep them attracted, you have to be their polar opposite.
If you are the yang (masculine) in relationship and you don’t want to change or are okay being the yang, then you can only attract men who shine in their yin energy (feminine).
Masculine guys will be repelled by you. Or they will friend zone you.
If you are a feminine woman, you can’t be sexually attracted to beta men cause there is no polarity that ignite the sparks. So you two are in the friend zone territory.
So in other words non friend zone territory is when the polar opposites are fully charged with opposite currents (imagine a magnetic field).
When you understand this law, you will see why your relationships have fallen apart and how you can strengthen the bond by keeping the polarity alive.
The loss of polarity is the beginning of a loss of attraction and thus….splitsville. Every relationship (including gay relationship) has to be polarized to remain intact. The yin and yang have to come together.
Magnetic draw is between positive and negative polar opposites. Two negatives/positives will repel each other. Quite the same way, two masculine energies will collide. Two feminine energies won’t go anywhere (imagine having two people who are followers or leaning back in relationship).
This is the basic principle of what I teach that has been proven to be so wildly successful and in this class I will explain it how you implement this in daily applications with your man or the men you date.
My partner Joe is a guest star in this class and shares our moments of challenges of what polarity means to us and how to keep it alive. You don’t want to miss this class (like all my classes) cause they’re very educational, enlightening and empowering.
“Thank you Katarina Phang! I listened to the polarity class yesterday. I felt relaxed and had taken all afternoon to myself. Suddenly, the one who brought me here asked me how my weekend was going. Then we started flirting and he asked me to come over for dinner. I just said, “Ok….let me get ready.”
I took a shower and dressed comfortably and went to see him. He made me a wonderfully delicious meal we drank wine, and talked and laughed and it was so relaxed. I listened to what he said, I followed his lead and I, FOR ONCE, didn’t try and DO anything.
He was so attentive, supportive and kind. Then we went to the couch and watched a movie. I was not trying too hard, just being present and truly and honestly enjoying myself. He was hugging me and I was just happy to be in his arms. He grabbed me and said “Clothes off.” It was all he could do to get me off orally. We got naked and finished watching the movie. He said, “when the movie is over it’s fun time.” He poured me some more wine, and I said, “I won’t be ok to drive.” he said, “You’re not leaving tonight.” WOW!
The movie finished and he said, “are you ready for fun?” I said,”Yes, I trust you.” He got up and I walked to the bedroom and he walked to the staircase. He called for me and I followed him downstairs where he has a pool table. We played naked pool! It was so much fun. Then we went back up stairs and he told me to wait in the kitchen as he went into the bedroom. A while later he came out and got me.. HE DREW ME A BUBBLE BATH!!! Candles and music too!!!! Holy f’ing wow! I got in and he got a washcloth and washed my back, and then got in with me. I just completely relaxed on him. Didn’t do a dang thing. He was all over me. I just told him how much I appreciated and trusted him and how happy I was. He was beaming.
Then we took a shower and went to bed. Last year I never spent the night He pleased me over and over orally and he couldn’t get enough. We went to sleep and he cuddled me until I fell asleep. Then I woke up got some water, he reached for me and I wrapped my arms around him and fell back asleep. We woke up today and made love once in bed and again in the shower. I went home feeling cared about…but not attached. Oh what I have learned!
It was so much fun. Now, I’m going to have have brunch with the girls and dinner with a rotation guy. It’s amazing what happens when you make space. Awesome.” ~Daisy, California
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17. Goddess Interview: Pamela, How She Ended An Abusive Relationship And Got Engaged Twice In A Year
This class is also a Goddess Interview with my client Pamela, who left her fiancée and got engaged 2 months later to another man, that coincidentally touched another subject worth dissecting: abusive relationship. She’s one of my numerous miracles and contributed to 2 of the 50 engagements in 2015. Here’s her story: “Hi Katarina, I’m kind of embarrassed to post this in the group… but I cancelled my wedding and engagement. What happened is I got engaged in April to my EUM after 4 years of on and off -and then really off for a solid nine months in which I had 2 minor relationships and then full roll onto a great rotation of good guys. Things were moving along we had a wedding date of November 7. In August we moved in together for the first time and things started to really unravel. Yes, I walked away from it because he was agitated and abusive to my daughter once we moved in together. It was over little things like she didn’t finish all her eggs for breakfast and he wanted her to tip toe around such she did but one Sunday afternoon she ran to the window when kids were playing on the street and he said she was being defiant over his house rules and he went after her. We could not live together. It was too extreme. So I walked away. I gave the ring back… This has been since September. It was super hard for me to give up the dream I was sick over it and embarrassed and ashamed of the failure of it but I am telling you it was a severe event that hit home. I moved out in the first week of September. He had my furniture back the next day. But…the two men from my rotation when I broke up with him came back and… strangely enough I can’t even believe I’m saying this. I can’t believe it’s me or my life but I think it’s your teachings absolutely. I got an engagement ring today so I’m now re-engaged to someone else. He was very upset when I told him back in April that I couldn’t date him anymore because I was engaged. He now said he wasn’t going to let that happen again so he was going to engage me to make sure that he did not lose me like that. I can’t believe this is my life or me. I thought he was joking when he was saying that. And there is another guy in my rotation from before that also came back. And he always seemed very much like the third guy in my rotation. I hardly ever heard from him or anything, all of a sudden he is saying he had been saying earlier this week that he wanted to get engaged by the end of December. He is a nice Greek guy that was in my rotation. Now all of the sudden he said he went to Greece over the summer and came back and made his decision and it was me he wanted for a wife?? I don’t know what’s happening with me!! Is it Four Components Of Melting His Heart??? But now I’m engaged again so I can’t get engaged to him and I can’t even believe it, Katarina. I feel humbled and I’m shocked. I don’t know why they are feeling like this. My new fiancee said, “I don’t know what you have done. Did you put a spell on me?” His mom said “What did you do to my son?!” She said she never saw him so smitten or heartbroken when I came off the market in April. Then when we were out on a date he asked me what happened between us, why did I run off and get engaged. He had wished I would have dated him longer cause he had really liked me (I had zero expectations of him because I was busy). I didn’t realize his experience with our dates was so happy for him. I didn’t care. He said he had been so happy with me. I had fun with him, he took me on great dates! He was shorter than men I usually date and I didn’t think he would want to start over with a young child. I gave it that much thought, therefore I just went out time after time and enjoyed every experience with him not thinking of him as someone I would continue with or not. I didn’t think he wanted marriage or anything. He was happy with me and I was busy with my rotation. I had a good time with him but I was also having a good time with other people and not taking too much of what he was saying seriously. He was pretty upset when I suddenly told him I couldn’t see him anymore he said that he wished I would have given him more chance and more time. I said, but you know my guy showed up with a ring. I said yes so I couldn’t see anybody else anymore and he said “Well, what if I get you a ring because the time that you were gone I really missed you and I didn’t date anybody else like you and if I get you an engagement ring and we get engaged will you not run off like that again.” He said he’s the marrying kind. He asked me what kind of ring I would like and today said he had thought about it as it’s a big decision but he wants to be engaged and get married sometime this summer :))))) He said, I will make you happy if you just tell me what you want. I’m speechless and I feel humbled I don’t know how to even explain it to anybody. I haven’t done anything. I haven’t even cooked this man a meal. I sign up for the monthly membership and Four Components Of melting His Heart, read the book and lurk in this group every day for pearls of wisdom and serenity. This has all changed me profoundly. Like I said I am in total disbelief this is me and my life but I’m extremely happy :))) I bow down to you, Katarina:)” So, are you in an abusive relationship and stuck in it cause you are too scared of the unknown? Learn from Pamela how she pulled this off with so much confidence. This 95 min class will also guide you on how to identify an abusive relationship. There are 8 clear signs that a man is abusive. Unfortunately abusers and abusees work in tandem. Both enable each other in a cycle of codependency. Unless you are emotionally healthy yourself, you may now know you are in an abusive relationship and even if you know, you may not have the power to leave as many many women don’t.
18. What Does A Path Of No Resistance Look Like and How It Paves Success In Both Career And Love
Why are you in pain? Cause you want to escape from what is. If you surrender and be one with what is, there will be no pain and suffering. It’s very simple.
I can’t even relate anymore with average people with problems cause I have none. And it’s all about attitude. I don’t mull about yesterday, I don’t obsess about the future, I don’t think what ifs. I just face and be totally immerse in what is in front of me. No separation, no conflict. Be totally one with what is unraveling in the moment whatever that is. No wanting things to be different. No anticipating anything in the future, near or far. I do what I can when I want. When I don’t want to, it doesn’t even cross my mind. And if I can’t I don’t think about it till I can. That is when your life becomes your meditation.
The path of no resistance is the core principles that I teach that has been proven to give me and many of my clients the kind of life we want, especially romantically however this is also the principle that has given much success in my career. How you can get everything without stresses and anxiety? In fact the key of getting what you want is when you live life without all those things. That’s why it’s called the path of no resistance. So I’d like to share the secrets of my success, how to lean back and become a goddess in both love and career. How you can enjoy the journey and still get to the destination without stresses, pressure and being enslaved by goals. The less you feel distressed which means the less are in your head in whatever you do, the better the result is, that sums up my philosophy of life. In this class I reveal the seven traits any success, romantically or professionally, some of them are deliberate actions and thinking and being in the state of flow. What do they mean? If you love my classes, you will be mind blown by this as well!
“Hi ladies! I’ve been lurking for several months and finally created an alternate account so I can post without fear of being discovered. I live in a tiny town and everybody knows everybody. I felt compelled to share my story after listening to Kat’s class on the path of no resistance. I can already tell this class is going to be life changing.
I’ve done Journey Inward. I’ve read the book. I’ve listened to other classes, including the high value woman class, and they were all helpful. But I kept falling back into old habits and I realized that while I understood the concepts intellectually, I didn’t really “get it” emotionally.
I was using everything as a strategy rather than changing how I think about myself and my place in the universe. No resistance changed all that. Now I finally FEEL Kat’s message and even though I still have a lot of work to do, I’m already feeling more peaceful.
For example, my EUM is out of town and I’ve been determined to not initiate contact when he returns because that’s what we’re supposed to do, right? I wasn’t truly leaning back; I was strategizing. No surprise that I’ve been feeling anxious about my ability to handle the silence if he doesn’t contact me as soon as he’s back it town.
After listening to the class (twice) it finally hit me – I don’t need to worry about this. If he’s supposed to contact me, he will. It’s totally out of my control and I don’t need to do anything to make it happen if it’s supposed to happen. It’s stupid to worry about how to respond to a theoretical text that may never come because I have no way of knowing what he will write, or how I will feel in that moment, or when that moment might happen.
I mean, I’m going to feel very differently if he texts tomorrow versus six months from now. The most significant thing I learned during this class is that what I call daydreaming is resistance and It hurts me.
I’ve been practicing deliberate thinking and action for only a day and I already feel better. When he pops into my head, I tell myself I’m not entertaining thoughts of him right now and it works! And now I am looking back at my notes from all the classes and the book and suddenly everything makes sense to me.
I know I was meant to purchase that class (after I had decided I was done spending money on this stuff) because it was what I needed to pull everything together in my head. I’m so grateful the right message appeared when I was ready to listen.
I’m not naive enough to think there won’t be bad days and weak moments ahead, I’m just not worrying about them right now. I’ll deal with it when it happens instead of making it worse by anticipating it.
This group is amazing and I’ve learned so much about myself and relationships from reading your posts. I’m glad I’m out of hiding and can participate in the discussion.” ~Beth, Iowa
“I <3 this class.
My favorite quote: ‘The mind is like a knife. It can hurt you if you’re not careful, but If you know how to use it, it is a useful tool. Someone who has realized the illusory nature of the mind can use the knife to create something amazing.’ (paraphrasing cause I’m sleepy.;))” ~Rachel, North Dakota
“Oh my Kat!!!!! I just listened to your class “What does a path of no resistance look like and how it paves success in both career and love” and its like I received a breath of fresh air!!!!!
I thought I was awaken in all aspects of life but realized at work I was letting my mind take the lead. This resulted in me perceiving outcomes and peoples behaviors and opinions causing so much stress, worry and anxiety. Just because I allowed my mind to dictate what is true and real at work.
It’s so empowering and freeing when you understand your mind is just a tool and you can use it in any way that benefits you and that you dont have to be a slave to it as you are the master! Our main objective is just to gracefully and gratefully accept what unfolds in front of us and be in the moment with it!
Wow, what a powerful life changing class!!!! Thank you!!! Xxx” ~ Rose, Alaska
“There’s a gem, ladies, in Kat’s recent “path of no resistance” class. It’s like a mini Journey Inward. Highly recommended. What a great class! Can’t wait to listen again.” ~Leah, Wyoming
“Great class today Kat! Always appreciated and always well timed 🙂 xoxo” ~Stephanie, Los Angeles
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19. The Healthy Approach To Sex That Is Attractive To Men: It’s Not What You’ve Been Told All Your Life
My client Gina wrote me this email: “Hey my darling. Thought I would write to you an update. Finally something positive. I can only say one word. Rotation. And when you used to tell me to have a rotation it was the most frustrating thing because it seemed so easy to you and if it was that easy to find someone hot I wouldn’t be in that position. But this is what I realized that you may want to share (anonymously to your friends). For people who are/were extremely depressed the pervasive feeling is that it’s so hard to meet people in a cocoon. But here’s the thing. It comes across as stubborn. It’s not. It’s just that we literally don’t know how to do things differently. To turn our brain off. To meet people. To feel unafraid. Even with the constant meditation. But recently I learned something that has been so key that my French spiritualist taught me. It’s a French saying “l’appétit vient en mangeant.” That literally translates to ” the appetite comes while you are eating.” For people in depression like me this was so key to rise out of it. Because we who obsess live in an alternate universe. The universe that doesn’t allow us to make choices so we think everything will turn out wrong. I know for you who has a basically positive nature this is difficult to fully comprehend. But the reason why this French phrase helped me is because I forced myself to meet up with dates I didn’t really like. Or wasn’t really thinking of them long term. I didn’t see anyone on line that interested me and it kept the depression going. Then I took a tantric yoga course and got into this concept that sensuality is vital for life and you can enjoy simple touch or hugs or even intimate conversation with someone you don’t even see yourself with. You can live in the moment and the whole idea of western “union” or marriage or commitment is truly forgotten because tantra focusses so much on pleasure as medicine. Or conversation with the opposite sex as for the moment only. My search for the partner was seriously interjected when I began to enjoy people for people. And here in enjoying a guy who I knew I would never want to be with long term has helped me stopped the judging and to have more compassion for human beings in general. I truly believe for people who are severely depressed intimacy is the exact thing that’s lacking and is vital in healing. Anxiety does not leave through the door of the mind or even the door of the heart it leaves through the door of togetherness. And if it’s short term it’s ok. So needless to say the appetite did come while I ate and I am gathering a rotation slowly and realized it’s my food so for right now to quote will Ferrell I am on WHORE ISLAND and having fun. Yes I do little obsessions here and there over a few of the guys but I am aware at least that the only reason we ever obsess is we put people on pedestals because we aren’t aware of our greatness not because that person is so friggin great. So baby steps for me. It has been very hard but I guess it was just my path. I’m reading your stuff every day and chilling. Thanks my darling. Sending you a big grateful hug.” This is a very insightful email that I just have to share it with you all. Sex is a huge part of our humanity and our human condition but so much stigma has been attached to it. For most of our lives, we have been conditioned to believe that sex -unless it follows certain protocol- is shameful, dirty and sinful. And we are carrying this baggage throughout our adult lives feeling that we are being watched for every single move we make with our body, particularly our genitals. That’s a huge burden upon anyone’s shoulder and any wonder if that causes so many complications in our lives? We are hung up on being sexually virtuous denying our most basic instinct. We are conflicted between our genetic makeups and what “should be” (asexual, not horny, extremely guarded and “good and moral” when it comes to the decision to channel our desire or not). We are a walking contradiction. No wonder it messes up with our heads. If you have followed me a while you’ll notice that I’m among very few coaches who have a very positive approach toward sex. Sex has been the source of shame and guilt for many women and this has created so much problem in dating and relationship. And this is why many relationships don’t flourish (trade sex for commitment, anyone?). What I’m teaching you in this class is so very counterintuitive like everything I teach, yet it has been proven to work beyond the shadow of a doubt. You don’t want to miss this empowering sex education that will reprogram your mind re. sex. My partner Joe is also in the class and he answers typical questions about sex from a male POV. Some of the stuff that is discussed in this fun class is: 1. when is the right time to have sex 2. how men view sex and women who put out very readily and if it affects their desire to pursue anything with them, double standards re. sex (if he does it he’s a stud, if she does it she’s a slut) 3. sex in relationship 4. if sex really bonds men to a woman and does it help relationship flourish 5. what if you feel shitty after sex 6. what if he disappears after sex 7. is there something called giving the cookie too soon (or too late) 8. can you hold out and still get the guy 9. sex within your rotation (is it okay to have sex with multiple men) 10.the consequences of not having sex for an extended period of time 11. the relationship between sex or lack thereof and depression/anxiety 12. what if he wants to leave each time after sex or if you don’t hear from it again after sex, etc…. This is such an entertaining and educational class that runs 1 hours 45 mins with super juicy content you will not hear anywhere else. Certainly one of my favorites! I truly enjoyed giving and listening to this class. It’s politically incorrect but it is what works. I don’t teach what is “right,” I teach what works and my results speak for me.
20. Goddess Interview: Layla, How She Saves Her Marriage Alone
That was Layla’s latest update of her reconciliation with her husband, two weeks after their Vegas Anniversary getaway. Only a week or so before their getaway Layla was so anxious about the uncertainty of their marriage but she stuck to the path of no resistance that I teach and not reacting on her hurt feelings and anxiety. She reaped the rewards after only 2 months working with my programs. In the interview she matter-of-factly said that the marital counseling wouldn’t have helped her marriage had she not been working on herself. The only thing she got from the counseling was the fact that she got to hear her husband’s feelings cause otherwise he didn’t talk much at all and she was left wondering what was going on, if he was going through with the divorce as he first intended to do. Wanna learn how my method has saved many marriages/relationships? And how a woman is the emotional leader in relationship and you as a woman can save your relationship ALONE. Yep, alone. That’s my proven trademark. Many don’t understand why it only takes one person to save a relationship and it’s usually the woman who holds the key. Listen to this enlightening class and feel a powerful shift within you that saving your marriage/relationship is a matter of when, not if, if you practice what I teach. Learn the unique and most counter intuitive lessons in love and relationship you won’t find anywhere else from a wizard coach who has given birth to 68 engagements in the last 2.5 years.
21. How To Detach From The Grip Of The Ego And Why Detachment Is Key
Everyday I read the heartbreaking sobs of the ladies in the group for feeling sad, lost, anxious, depressed cause they aren’t getting what they want…or what their mind thinks they want. It’s a real problem that will actually hinder the fulfillment of their desire. That’s the paradox of life. When you desire something you attach a thought to that desire or the fulfillment of that desire. The thought whatever it is is untrue. You believe in your thought based on what? Wishful thinking, memories, fantasy, conditioning, fulfillment seeking, ideas…not reality here now. You glorify the effect of fulfilling your desire but whatever it is never lasts (the great sex never lasts if you think you can prolong the sexcapade by marrying him or whatever reason you have in mind like lifetime romance, maybe?). This is how people live their lives: buried in thoughts. I don’t live my life like that anymore cause I SEE the nature of thoughts. I’m no longer sold by thoughts. The minds seeks the extension of pleasure permanently and it will never get it cause nothing is permanent. One can’t just enjoy the fun experience now without wanting more of the same every day. If you see yourself doing it you can nip it in the bud but most don’t have control upon that cause they are duped by this drug called the mind. One who sees this seeks no more. One just allows things to unravel whatever they are in the moment and observe with a detached yet curious mind: a beginner’s and innocent mind (innocent doesn’t mean stupid). Cause one seeks no more there is no drive to pine, want, obsess. It is extinct (hence it’s called Nirvana which means “blown out, extinguished”). It’s complete equanimity. One is one with the flow of life. Don’t miss this class cause it might be the answer to your predicament.
22. How To Let Go And Why Letting Go Is So Hard To Do
Many of you are so entangled in your attachment to a lukewarm or uninterested man it makes your situation much more complicated that it actually is had you been not clinging so hard…. To understand letting go, first you have to understand struggle. Letting go only exists when there is a struggle. What is a struggle and why do we struggle? Struggling is a human trait. Only human beings struggle. Animals unless in the time of survival (like when they are hunted by their predators) don’t. At least they don’t emotionally cause they don’t have a self. To struggle requires a psychological self. Only very advanced animals like human beings have psychological selves. And this very statement brings about the intuitive feel that psychological selves are a bunch of poo poo, does it not? They’re totally made up. Where are they made up in? In your head. So to struggle requires evolution. It requires complexity. The brain evolves to allow us better means at survival: more technologies, more amenities, more comfort, more productivity etc. Yet with the evolution of the brain, it comes with a hefty price: the ability and propensity to struggle because the brain is prone to conceptualize and attach to its own conceptualization. And these two…and nothing else…cause us to struggle. When you are one with the rhythm of life, you stop expecting anything coming from life cause you will just observe, notice and recognize. So you allow life to unfold the way it’s supposed to unfold without your striving and efforts to make it otherwise. So instead of expecting life to fit an idea that you have of what life is (should be) you jump into life with a curiosity of a 5 year old. Bring it on! Let me see what the day has in store for me. So letting go is the absence of striving for letting go.
23. Why You Are Anxious and How To Overcome It
“My journey goes back a little. We had started dating, going out, having sex, I was a jealous anxious mess. I’d go through rages and hit him when we were out, he let it go, before I found Kat I was doing it all wrong, claiming him before he claimed me, drunk text harassing him, over invest, over give, drove him away to another women and he blocked me from everything, I turned him mean towards me, he couldn’t stand me, I lost all hope. I let his relationship run it’s course, he came back to me slowly because the other girl was extremely crazy and he cared for me just didn’t like my ways. He claimed me, we’d spend everyday together, but I got too comfortable, then days he’d pull back I’d be an anxious mess, text him like 100 times a day, accuse him of things, not give him space. I ended things with him, changed my number on him, 2 weeks I returned to try to do things differently, contacted him, we talked, he said the way I went on him was wrong and the things I texted him. I leaned back, after we seen each other, even though I was a mess in this group, Kat told me if I don’t freak out all the time he’ll miss me, he was slowly reaching out again, on weekends, now weekends and weekdays, calling again, texting more. Now we see each other more and he’s so sweet. He is definitely a different and good guy. I really do love him. The more I’m laid back and lure with honey, he is becoming so much better to me. I do believe that we can either bring out the best in someone or the ass out of them. People respond to how you act towards them. I’m truly understanding the meaning of unconditional love for a man. Loving and accepting him for who he is. Glad I followed Katarina Phang she is truly a blessing and if my young EUM, ladies man can change to be more loving to me, any man can. He is also noticing me being more feminine too, because he is definitely showing his protective side through actions and when we lay with each other. I know he is a part of my journey to awaken the true feminine in me and I’m here to awaken his masculinity and goodness. I believe in this man now. There are no guarantees, but I’m enjoying this right now in this moment.” ~Tasha, New Jersey Anxiety is the one thing I notice in so many of the women who come to me including Tasha and this is the number one repellent and the main reason why your relationship never lasted or even launched. Anxiety is a stressor for both of you and people around you. It’s energetically draining and of the lowest vibration. The fact is it’s also an illusion, if only you could see it. This class will explain why and the five steps that will remedy this situation. It’s easier than you think.
24. Goddess Interview: Kimi, How She Got Her Ex Husband Re-Propose After 5 Year of Divorce & No Contact
I didn’t see it coming. I knew Kimi would be my success story one way or another (cause you can’t fail with my method) but I didn’t think she would get her ex-husband back after 5 years of divorce and no contact. And when she announced that they got back together in November 2015, I still didn’t think he would re-propose that fast. She had been sitting on all my programs the previous 2 years, and in every cycle of Journey Inward, even though she’s on disability and only had little money to spend on courses. We worked it out cause she had been one of my most committed students. And just a few days before this interview he re-proposed! This is her story in her own distinct voice and writing style: “Ladies.., NEVER GIVE UP!! I knew he had been thinking about it, but didn’t know for sure… If or When he’d do it!! Those of you who Know me on here I haven’t posted in while, but I got Back with my ex husband after 5 Very Long Depressing years, and I took ALL of Kat’s classes so I knew What to Do… Nothing fancy with asking me, we were in truck at light by the mall… When he leaned over and kissed me, then ask me, if I Was going to marry him Again.., and I laughed it off thinking he was joking… When he pulled in mall and said, ” you need a ring and you need to pick it!! I said, Your serious aren’t you? And he said Hell yea I’m serious! So we went in and I picked out Any ring I wanted! It was Fun!!! So for those who Don’t know… We were together for 11 years and back when we were partying and drinking and always ended up fighting… And I pushed him away, but once things calmed down, we started seeing each other but I got stupid… And thought I’d find someone Better, I then realized.. What a mistake I made! We had divorce final and then I heard he had a New gf!! So I came by to bring his things, when I seen it was this Awful Bi*ch that I grew up knowing that she chased the last year we were together, his daughter dated her son… So she was always asking her questions and begging her to Fix them up! Well they were dating and I tried warning him and his family… All about her, but they thought I was just a jealous ex wife!!! Well it didn’t take long, for them to a See, what I was talking about! She was So Happy thinking she Got him, that I knew it was only time, and he’d be Done with her!!! It started last year in March that I got him to come over to get some money my son owed him from years ago, and his mom told me he was laid off… So I knew money would get him to come over!! So I called not knowing if she was with him or not.., and he answered it I almost dropped the phone!! I told him I had cash for him and he came right over, but He was Just as nervous as I was!!! Lol.. He came over and we had small talk and he got ready to leave and I wanted to just Grab him… When he ask Me for at least a hug! I was now, about to faint , it was like I was dreaming!! He put his arms around me and even ask me Why I was shaking.., lol. Then he kissed me!!!! I could Feel him melt, the same as I did, I told his mom, All I needed was 5 minutes and I’d have him Sunk, and I Did!!! He’d call me about every 2-3 days, he was trying to help the gf pack cuz he told her she needed to Go! But she kept saying she had No where to go… But after our moment we had, he was determined to get rid of her!!! About 2 weeks later he called and told me he was at Weber’s Inn, most expensive hotel in Ann Arbor and ask me to join him! I was So excited I couldn’t get there Fast enough!!! It was the Best weekend I ever had!!! He knew he was in Deep shit when he got home with her trying to find out where he was!! But he didn’t care anymore!!! So he told her on Saturday he was renting a truck and moving her things, if it was only to storage place! So she got busy packing! Then as soon as he dropped off her things, he called and said to meet him at his house! And I’ve been here ever since!!!!! I Never could have been the partner I am today… If it wasn’t for Katarina Phang, and All the time and money I spent, being In Every class… And read her book about 50 times, it’s weird how each time you read it, I’d learn something I missed the times before!! He still is Amazed at how different I am Now, verses how I was Before!! I use to pout, cry, chase him, accuse him of Everything , and drive him Crazy… Until I met Kat, and healed the inner child from feeling from my mom who I never felt loved the way I wanted and my dad was the silent type who never expressed himself but I knew he Loved me!! Then my 1st marriage that was both physical and verbal abusive which made me afraid to talk about my feelings!! But since years went by… We have become very close, mostly because of kids and grandkids, and he’d invite me to dinner and casino and I had to drive him home one night… And even HE… Ask me, ” if I was to ask you to marry me again… What would you say?” Oh…. My heart sank, and I felt Bad for him because I Had to say NO, even after he’d tried Everything to make it up to me, how Bad he treated me!! But he was ok, but I had to Really Lean back from him!!! But it’s nice that we can be together with All family now!! So to All you ladies out there… Never give up, just work on fixing yourself… Cuz That… Is what will matter the Most, when your With him the next time !! They can Feel, your energy from across the room… If you’ve fixed Yourself to being Full of Life, Love, Happiness , positive vibe you send out… They Will Notice!!! I waited 5 years just for that 1st Hug… Never dreaming it would end up like This!!! I am So Blessed, with getting a 2nd chance of having the life I always wanted with a man who cooks, cleaning, laundry, toilets, mowing grass, keeps a perfect home, so what more could I ask for!! LOL!! So my Fairytale will be coming True.., soon as I set a date!!!” She has grown so much since the 2 years she sat in my programs religiously. Her self-love and self-confidence is so mesmerizing, no wonder he can’t wait to marry her AGAIN! I’m sure you have tons of questions. And because she is one of my most compelling miracles, she is now in the Goddess Interview Series. She is proof that anything is possible with my teachings. No relationship issue is too hard to overcome. And in this class she will tell you what the game changers are.
25. Goddess Interview: Wendy, Relationship Timeline: When His Is Much Slower What To Do?
Many of you come to me cause your and your guy’s timeline don’t match. And you read somewhere else how if a man doesn’t commit within 3 months he never will and you get all anxious. He responds to your anxious pressure by pulling away. You, in effect, slows down his timeline even more. Whitney (or Wendy in this article) did the exact same thing and caused them to break up. With my method she got him back months later and slowly but surely he felt safe to lead the relationship again without her constant emotional outbursts. Two years since the day they met, he finally claimed her. It would have been much faster had she been a Kat girl since day one. Don’t make the same mistake, attend the class tonight and learn from Whitney. They’re now expecting a baby girl!! Congratulations, Whitney.
26. I Made A Blunder….I’m Freaking Out, How Do I Fix This?
You got pissed again cause you perceived a slight. And you reacted…as usual. You told him how you felt cause you read as long as you used “I” and not “you” this should be okay. Millions of women have done that…”I feel this,” “I feel that.” Thousands of them are under my care now. And he pulls away still, just like when you still said “you did this,” “you did that.” Nothing has changed and now you’re regretting your (over)reaction only minutes later, so what do you do? Right, apologizing…. This is the 10th time this month you have been apologizing. And he said “Don’t be sorry, be different.” Yup, he doesn’t want your apology. The more you do it, the more unstable you look to him. So what to do? Many of you are so reactive you keep making mistakes that you regret only minutes later. There is one thing that fixes a mistake like no other, I will reveal in this class what that is. Do you know how men show they’re sorry? I will also reveal in this class through an real-life example of my boyfriend. That’s what you should also do. If you always feel like you’re walking on eggshells, you need this class.
27. Goddess Interview: Kellie, Why He Still Dumps You After Being A Goddess And What To Do
“He came back. He showed up at my house last night. Kat said if you don’t freak out he will be back. We talked a while before he spit it out “I want us to try again” I’m happy right now. He held me all night. I feel like this is unreal. We were together a year and broke up for just five weeks. I didn’t contact him ever. Just let him go even though I was hurting. He truly believed that are parenting differences would break us. He admitted that he could step in with my kids and I must be doing something right because his girls love me. I told him since moving in the new house I’ve seriously laid down the law with my son’s back talk and have rules in place (no more free for all). I was in the garage when he pulled up. I admit I melted when I saw him get out of the truck. He didn’t come right out and say it. In fact he just kept saying the same stuff “we were so good. I don’t want things to be awkward if we see each other. I do love you Kellie.” I was prepared for him to go. But he couldn’t stop hugging me and saying sorry. Finally I was like “look you made me very happy. I did not want you to leave but I respect you know what’s best for you. So I accept it and wish you love.” Yes I was crying. He just wiped my tears and pushed my hair out of my face and spit it out “I miss you. I want you and no one else. You are so special to me. We’ll have to get on the same page with the kids, but I want us to try again.” Then he picked me up and hugged me for an eternity until I stopped crying. I didn’t sleep because I just kept looking over and he was there and it was surreal.” ~Kellie, Alaska Kellie is one of the Kat Goddesses who experienced this typical men-getting-cold-feet situation and she managed to get him back by sticking to what I teach. Find out what she did or didn’t do to deal with this breakup the most dignified way that impressed him so much that he realized no other woman compared. This is why my teachings have been responsible with so many exes back and relationships/marriages saved. What I teach is a way of being that will change everything about your life. It will make you happier and more peaceful and in return that lightness of being will mesmerize any guy that crosses your path. And this class is why Jillian also got her ex back after a 6-week breakup! This is 2 + 2 = 4. You can’t fail with my method. You just can’t.
28. How You Play Out The Movie In Your Head And This Is Where All The Drama Comes From
When you reflect back on your life, on the pain, anguish, drama, hardship that you have gone through what do you come up with? Stories, right? It’s the stories of the “I.” I was brought up this way. I experienced this and that and thanks to that I became this way or that way so I perceived the world this way or that way and because of that I acted this way or that way. And thanks to my actions I attracted this person or that person who caused me to be this way or that way, and so on and so forth. You think any event is real the way you describe it, while what you describe is a mere subjective experience called the story of the “I.” It didn’t actually happen that way. The being lost in the stories is why you become their pawn. Your mind projects the specially written I-movie onto the world. So not only you live a dream but you also created it, but you never realized it…until now that I tell you it was all but an illusion. You never knew you were dreaming. You were playing a role and you didn’t know it. Get this enlightening class and you will learn to have a drama-free life by just practicing one thing: awareness. You will become awake in the dreams.
29. Doormats, You Need To Bitch Up!
Typically my clients are the explosive cray cray ball busters or doormats. Also, often they swing between the two in a vicious cycle. But many are total doormats as well. You think he’s all that and you’re not worthy. That’s why he isn’t claiming you and NEVER will till you love yourself first. I feel like pulling my hair out sometimes trying to make you see this. You become a doormat mostly because of GCS symptom, a term that I coin to explain a woman who gets addicted on a man. What is that? You’re always walking on eggshells and are too eager to please cause you can’t imagine losing him, even though he’s taking you for granted. So this is a special class made just for you: “Doormats, You Need to Bitch Up.” Usually my advice is about luring with honey, softening of boundaries and being non-reactive but you doormats have no boundaries whatsoever. You’re just as extreme as the crazy ball busters. You need to come to the middle somewhere to be high-value and easy to lose. In this class I reveal the 3 types of doormats. Which one are you, do you know? And how you can be non-reactive without being a doormat?
30. How To Go Through A Crisis And Stay Grounded At The Same Time
Recently when I was on a trip to NY, Canada and Europe my website was hacked and many of my sales in the 2-week period were redirected to the paypal accounts of these thieves. I have lost a few thousand dollars in the process. That’s life, folks. Life throws you a learning curve. An asleep person will fight it, get angry at God/life and suffer in the process. An awake person would ask him/herself: what’s the lesson in it? That’s what I’ve been asking myself. There are always teachable moments I can share with you when it comes to my life. That period has been hard on me. Not only that this trip had been teaching me so many lessons, more self-discovery and on top of it all patience and non-attachment. It started when my parents missed their flight, then ended up with a new ticket and flew 31 hours instead of the original 24 hours. Then we came late to pick them up cause road to JFK was under repair so we waited 2 hours only to receive a message from my father that they took a cab and were already in hotel. Then my website was hacked and I lost a few grands in the process. Then I thought I lost my cell just before boarding to Venice (lucky I didn’t but I had surrendered to that as well). Then my father told me he left his new camera and sunglasses in the Toronto hotel. In this class I’m sharing my journey with you: “How To Go Through A Crisis And Stay Grounded At The Same Time.” How I still kept myself together, be immersed in moment and enjoying trip despite all these challenges thrown at me one after another. And I will also reveal Eleven Clear Signs Of Cosmic Consciousness in this class. Why raising your level of consciousness makes you a hundred times more effective in handling and dealing with a crisis.
31. Do Men Love Alpha Women As Widely Believed?
At times the ladies in the group post some articles from the web on how men are really into alpha women and the reasons why. Undoubtedly, the writers are alpha women themselves. The reality isn’t what you think it is or what is popularly accepted out there (of course, what else?). A few weeks a go a man was desperately seeking for my advice because he had to choose between his alpha exciting mistress or his pregnant “easy and boring” wife. You want to know what I advised him? This would very well be the best money he ever spent in his entire life that would save him decades of heartache and ruined lives down the road. Men love exciting thrilling passionate women who are so shiny in so many ways: successful, highly intellectual, smart, super confident, knowing what she wants and isn’t shy to work for or pursue them…INDEED… until they are met with the same stumbling block with the same type women over and over. Do you know what that is? Maybe it’s you all long and you are at a loss why the passionate beginning has dwindled to almost nothing? You don’t want to miss this class cause it will point out to you to your blind spot that will humble you…
32. Goddess Interview: Jenna, Dating A Recently Divorced Man, How She Got Him to Marry Her in A Year
“So, last night I married the man of my dreams. Dreams come true. Thank you Katarina Phang! I’m on my honeymoon but would be happy to share details when I have more time. It was just important I let you know Kat!” ~Jenna, Atlanta
Jenna is one of my miracles. Her EUM (at the time) had been unhappily married for 17 years in which he felt guilty all the time and had been divorced for 7 months when they met so of course he was scared to jump in another relationship so quick. But through sticking to what I teach and signing up for the Leaning Back workshop, Journey Inward and the monthly membership, she melted his heart beyond recognition and he proposed in December:
“Engaged! :)) My love proposed last night on our 1 year anniversary. This wouldn’t have been possible without Katarina who I found, with the universe’s help, just a month or two before I met him. He was scared and wavered in the beginning – and it was with Katarina’s teaching that helped me stay centered and quickly turned him around in such a profound way that we were moved in and talking marriage just a four months into our relationship. He is the man of my dreams..well worth the wait! xoxo Thank you Katarina.
I had worked on myself a great deal before I met Kat…but everything that she teaches really brought me to the next level the first thing I learned was to always hold onto myself. Trust myself, trust the universe. and always know that you are enough for any man right where you are.
When I met my man he was a total EUM..but I used Kat’s teachings with him from day one and now four months later we are living together, we talk about marriage all the time and we’re trying to get pregnant.
Can you believe it!! It was because of your teachings and meditation that I drew an amazing guy like him in in the first place. Thank you thank you!”
Just a year and 2 months after she implemented my method (she started to work with me January 22, 2015), they’re now happily married. Though it’s not typical (that a recently divorced man is ready to marry again only after less than 2 years), miracles do happen. So if you are in the same situation wants to learn from Jenna, you can’t afford to miss this class.
“Great class ?Big thanks to both, Kat and Jenna…what an inspiring story of transformation ?” ~Tatjana, Moscow
You can now purchase this powerful class for $87 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
33. Goddess Interview: Renee, How To Deal With Anxiety And Depression Without Medications
Renee is one of my many miracles. She’s one of a few that has gone off antidepressants since practicing what I teach. She embodies what I teach on expansion of consciousness and why it matters in curing depression. My stance has been that drugs aren’t the solutions to your life issues. What we call depression is really, day-to-day suffering that humanity is subject to since the beginning of time. These days we pathologize this unique aspect of being human in the attempt to profit out of it in a way that is so detrimental to millions. Drugs change the fundamental structure of the brain and you become dependent on them (but no worries because doctors will tell you your brain is different to emotionally healthy people without a shred of evidence other than wild theories that have been questioned and debunked by so many in the profession itself). Learn from Renee how she weaned herself off the addiction of these drugs and please beware that going cold turkey on them can be very dangerous. Here’s her story: “My boyfriend just asked me to move in! He says he’s never felt so comfortable and I’m his best friend and he wants to be able to see me everyday (we have been long distance). I’ve used all I’ve learnt from Katarina Phang and bought many of her products that I often relisten too. This is the healthiest most easy relationship I’ve had in my life. Thank you, Katarina Phang. You have completely changed my life the last 2 years since finding you and your message. I thank the EUM that brought me to an all-time low and finding you on the Internet. First you helped me understand I’d been running on masculine energy, then you helped me get off 10 years of antidepressants and cured my anxiety with Journey Inward and now I’ve been blessed with a wonderful man. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.” Renee is a survivor, her life story is incredible and so much to learn from. That is her latest update, she wrote this the year before: “Listen I’m not gonna sugar coat shit. I’ve wanted to die for years. My depression was deep. My best friend was murdered. Her throat was cut. Her body was thrown in the bushes after she was drugged and raped. The same dude that did that to her tried to do the same to me. He got as far as cutting my throat. I was drugged, kidnapped and raped at 16! My friend had it worse than me sadly. I had PTSD. I had anxiety. I had survival guilt…whatever they want to call it. I experienced depression and intense anxiety suicidal feeling. Other than PTSD, I’ve been diagnosed with bi-polar extreme anxiety to the point I’d been unable to function or work, etc. I tried every drug the doctors gave me for 10 years. Some in the morning, some at night, on and on. I’ve suffered this way for almost 30 years. I’ve done every therapy. Some helped a bit but I could never get off the drugs. I was like a hamster stuck in a wheel. Last summer I found Kat. Signed up for Journey Inward. I’ve now been able to be completely med-free and here’s the best thing: I have no more depression or anxiety. My depression was so bad I’d fall to the floor begging my angels to take me out. I’ve been told my mind was imbalanced. My serotonin levels were not right. I had years of counseling, 12 steps, group therapy, classes, courses, books, past life regressions, Louise Hays, Abraham Hicks, you name it. I’ve been a seeker. A meditator. A warrior. I’ve been in a gang. I’ve be done every drug from the doctor, every street drug. I’ve been married, divorced. Done it all over again. Moved 37 times. And finally I found Kat. At 44 years old. She taught me about my mind and how to deal with my depression and anxiety with RAIN (Recognition, Acceptance, Investigation and Non-identification). I’m 45 now and I’ve never had so much peace in my life. I can see my mind and I watch it when feelings come up. I meditate and use her RAIN techniques. All minds are the same. She is right. Our minds can be tamed but you got to get out of the way and listen and try. I will follow her till the end. She’s blunt because she has to deal with some of us, masculine women (which I have been too). It makes me cry all the time in utter gratitude. Something has so profoundly shifted in me that I really cannot explain. It’s seeing I’m not my mind. Drugs only prolong this dark place and fake it.”
34. Seven Conditions Of How Men Fall In Love
Falling in love is a psychological process. I will explain it to you how in this class. If you understand how men bond to a woman you will stop the stuff you’re doing now that pushes him away. Blathering about how you feel all the time is one of them. You are responsible for your upset feelings. Maybe your way of seeing things causes you to always react cause you often feel upset for every little thing. You stall the process of him bonding to you emotionally that way cause you don’t feel safe for him.
The 5 of 7 Conditions needed for a Man to fall in love
- They realize they need to pursue and court you to win your heart. You don’t need courting when you arrive before him (this is why you are so confused and end up on this page).
- They are given the space to rubber band and process their feelings. That includes they don’t get to hear from you babbling about your feelings all the time.
- They fear of losing you, they wonder what you’re doing when you are away cause you lean back. They suspect other men must be pursuing you as well so they need to step up their game.
- They feel wonderful whenever they’re with you, instead of being drained or stressed out. You bring joy into their life. You’re easy to lead and be with. You have very few neuroses. Your energy is light and uplifting.
- They have a chance to miss you! It’s so important for a man to be able to feel that you’re not around as much and their imagination starts to wonder to the sweet things you have shared together. It’s hard for them to fall in love when you’re always in their face. Your absence plays a big part when it comes to how men fall in love.
There are two other things that I will reveal in the class about this very subject and I explain every point in a way that will nudge your consciousness to expand so you can put yourself in his shoes. It’s a 90-min class so all your questions about every point will be answered and you’ll experience so many aha moments typical of listening to Kat’s classes.
It’s very important for a guy to feel that to be able to feel safe enough to bond with you.
If you are trapped in this habit of stalling the process of him falling for you, It’s time to turn your love life from failure after failure to a success story like I see every day in my community. Your class will turn this around and it will give you the peace of mind you need to be able to relax so he can pursue you and come closer to you organically.
“A very thought provoking class. It has given me a lot to think about. Thank you, Kat.” ~Nina, New York
“I jot down so many notes on this class. Dayum, Kat, you’re a fountain of knowledge and wisdom.” ~Lucy, Oregon
You can now purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
35. How To Observe Our Reactions And Heal Our Inner Wounds In The Process
This class is in time in light of current political climate in the US and the world in general, in which we are swayed between two extreme POV’s: between being totally permissive/liberal or sticking to our old/conservative values, with the majority view of something in between. We have all those opinions within us, whether or not we are honest about and/or aware of them. Your reactions to external events, to other people’s opinions and their reactions to your and other opinions are actually guiding you toward deeper realizations of the nature of the self/mind/ego. And how you have been others in so many occasions and vice versa. What spaciousness and peace you feel inside when you see that insight first hand! You will also be aware if you are being judgmental or discerning cause you will be able to tell the difference in your body, in your emotional reactions. Instead of getting so caught up in the content of the arguments, and trying to convince yourself/others who is right/wrong, perhaps you will benefit more in just observing all these phenomena that you perceive in the world as something that is actually happening within your own consciousness. This practice makes you an aware person. And awareness is everything. Awareness heals a lot of wounds otherwise undetected by creating a gap and in that gap you cultivate detachment. You can’t afford to miss this class if expanding your consciousness from the restrictive egocentric mode filled with suffering, inner conflicts and strife to a peaceful inclusive cosmic mode of consciousness. Remember this: what you focus on expands, what you resist persists.
36. Goddess Interview: Kara, How To Turn Your EUM into EAM And Be His Muse
As I always say my method always works. It’s like clockwork. It’s 2 + 2 =4. The only thing that makes a difference is your readiness. Some of you have a hard time making sense of what I teach so you keep going against my advice and then come back to me with the same old problems expecting me to fix them. Only you can fix your relationship/love life and it’s by fixing your dysfunctional approach and behaviors. Kara is one of the fast learners who got my ebook and I didn’t hear anything from her till one day she announced that she got engaged. To the EUM that broke up with her when she found me. “Ladies!!!!!! I SAID YES! Today Rob, my man, woke me up at the crack of dawn to tell me we were going up to Hoodoo mountain (a ski/sled/snowboard mountain in Oregon) with his parents and his daughter. It was a complete surprise and we had a wonderful fun-filled family day. Afternoon comes around and he takes me up on a ridge that leads into a deep valley of beautiful untouched snow, with a river flowing in the center with the sun was shining down bright. It is facing a mountain in Oregon. He got down on one knee, told me: “You have given me the world since the day I met you. You have never faltered in giving me, my daughter, and my family endless love. You are my BEST FRIEND. You make me laugh, you teach me to be better, we challenge each other to always do better. Through all of our ups and downs, and through me being a dumbass *****AKA EUM!!!**** I have seen that you are my one. Forever. You are the most beautiful, kind, smart, and loving woman I have ever met and ever will. I want you so badly to be mine forever. It would be the highest honor to not only call you mine, but to MARRY YOU. Kara, will you do me this endless honor? Will you marry me?” *melting and crying* He broke up with me 2.5 months ago because he didn’t know if he wanted commitment. I let him go and MOVED ON. I made my life OKAY and GREAT without him. Then he came back. Ladies, it WILL happen. Give it time and Kat’s teachings :)” She’s now happily married and expecting a baby girl in a few weeks. And you can too! This class will show you how. She will reveal in this class: 1. How to handle a breakup in the most dignified way. 2. How to start dating again even though you know deep down he’s the love of your life. 3. How to handle his initial contacts after a breakup in a balanced way that keeps him coming for more, without the drama and anxiety. 4. Why sticking to a rotation is critical when he’s back in the picture and actually stepping up! This is where many of you went amiss. 5. How to always keep him on his toes once you’re back together. Over the years I have helped so many women get back with their exes and at least 4 of them are married to their (former) exes now. This class is a must listen if you feel so stuck in your current relationship or you just have broken up with your guy because he’s non-committal.
37. Manspeak: What He Actually Thinks/Says And How To Respond As A Woman
Are you always confused by men’s words and actions? Do you always tend to over analyze every little move and every thing they say and then thanks to this analysis paralysis you become so anxious and shaky? Then this class is just for you. The truth is there is no sense in trying to analyze manspeak. It’s a waste of time and energy and this class will explain why. Truth be told, men aren’t saints, they aren’t assholes either. They’re just like us in that they care about themselves first (like I always teach you to do). They aren’t planning ahead of time, they just be (something that I also teach that women need to learn more). Joe is the guest star in the class and he’s entertaining (that’s why I’m with him ? ).
38. How To Pick Your Battles With Men
Many ladies the support group come up with issues that are actually non-issues. These things that they bring about become issues because they over think and over analyze the situations. They’re obsessed and the mind thinks it will solve the problems it creates by applying more mind into them. It’s like pouring gasoline into fire to make it disappear. This is why many of you are burnt out. He doesn’t offer me soup when I’m sick. He doesn’t invite me to have a drink with his cousin. He would rather watch football alone than spending a night with me. He doesn’t respond to my text after 4 hours. He doesn’t say good morning/good night like he used to. He’s always on FB and liking girls’ pictures and I want him to stop doing it. And so forth, and so on…. Many of you are so caught up in the small details because your sense of worth comes from his constant validation and your perception of what a man-in-love should do (and it has to be all about taking care of your delicate feelings). So which ones are expectations and which ones are deal breakers? Which things are boundaries and which things are standards? And what is honey and what is being a doormat? Where do you draw the line? And what does accept or reject mean? Does it mean we always have to break up if we are upset about something and I can’t accept it? Confusing, isn’t it? It won’t be confusing no more because I dissect this very subject in this very class. This is important to know for any woman to have a lasting relationship with a man.
39. How to Drop Your Stories And Be Empty Inside, And How It Can Make You So IRRESISTIBLE
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Do you know that your stories make your reality? Look at your life now, how is it? Is it easy and blissful? Or is it filled with hardship? Change your stories, change your reality. If you’re a believer in whatever your mind says, whatever running commentary that pops up in your waking consciousness, you’re by definition fast asleep. You are unconscious. No need to feel bad about that because this is the predicament of the vast majority of people on the planet. People live in a state of very deep confusion not knowing who they actually are. And through your unconscious impulses you shape your reality. I’m a powerful creator of my reality and so are you. I’m empty inside and my reality is whatever I make of it. And so far it’s only bliss. This class will further nudge you open and more aware of this elusive yet attainable state of being. It’s like an introduction to the retreat.
You can purchase this powerful class for $87 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
40. Ten Keys To Keep Attraction Alive in A Long Term Relationship
Many of you worked the magic that I teach to get your guys to commit but then kinda go back to being confused again once you’re in relationship or have moved in together.
Some go back to your old pushy anxious self and lose the Goddess mojo and as the result, the insecurities are back in full force!
It doesn’t have to be that way. Your over analyzing is one of the reasons why you feel everything is falling apart again. If you don’t bait and switch (being alluringly feminine to trap him, then turning into a bitch once you’re claimed), you should be fine.
I will discuss how to keep your relationship, not only alive, but also more bonded every single day. And it really doesn’t take what you think it takes. If it was effortless to get him to commit, it’s also effortless to keep him attracted to you…and not only that but also for him to keep investing in you emotionally.
Because remember, emotional connection and attraction that will keep your relationship intact.
So in this class I lay out the ten key points that if you understand and implement them, it will keep your attraction alive in relationship. Attraction as the relationship evolves often hang on a thin rope because it’s being eroded by the perceived flaws and misunderstanding of each other’s nature. By keeping in mind these ten points you will be able to mitigate upset feelings early and not to let fester and corrode your connection.
“Kat, what a revealing class. Light bulb moment after light bulb moment. I surely haven’t implemented any of the ten points, no wonder my relationship is so rocky. I’m done being a codependent. I project a lot of my own stuff onto this man and our relationship. My heart bleeds for him. He’s such a good man, he tries so hard but I can’t see it. Thank you, thank you for the revelations. It feels like a very heavy concrete block has been lifted off my chest!!” ~Leanne, Nevada
You can purchase this powerful class for $87 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
41. What Is Mothering and How Not To Mother A Guy
Many of you have a habit of fixing and giving suggestions to the guys you date/your partner even when you are not asked. That is leaning forward and often depolarizes the relationship. It reminds him of his mother. Attend this class to be aware of that tendency and to know some examples of mothering. I will also address the notion of “lean back too much” that many of you often worry about because you’re so used to being the busy body in relationship.
“Kat, you always seem to hit the mark with every class. I’ve been listening to so many of your classes since I found you two months ago and you can’t imagine the shift I have experienced thus far and our relationship has been way better and easier ever since! I couldn’t have done it without you. I was so in the dark before I found you I made every mistake in the book that you pointed out with every class I listen to week after week. You’re right my mothering comes from a place wanting validation and it comes with strings attached. When I realized that I could now just relax and be my natural self and my bf loves me more thanks to that! 😮 What is this sorcery, seriously?” ~Jodi, Ohio
You can purchase this powerful class for $87 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
42. The Seven Principles That Put Him Under Your Spell
Please be warned: this 90 minute class will change your vibration with your EUM or the men you adore. So if you don’t want to be pursued hard by a guy, don’t listen to this class. 🙂
Being mesmerizing isn’t about how you look. It’s about the energy you radiate. People respond to your energy. And your energy is defined by what you hold in your mind. If you always think in terms of how you fare compared to others, you will always find and feel lack within yourself and the energy you radiate will be self-doubts, insecurities and the chronic feeling of not being good enough. And you will start projecting those things onto others seeking validation from externalities. And your energy will be desperate, restless and needy. You can be a 10 in the look department but people, especially men, will have a hard time connecting with you. On the other hand, when you feel secure within yourself, you will project self-confidence and self-assuredness and the energy you radiate will be joy, groundedness, understanding and tolerance because whatever people say or do you know it’s not about you. It’s a reflection of themselves. You don’t need other people’s approval to be okay with yourself. If some people don’t like you, you will just remove yourself from them. You’re gravitated toward and attract people of the same level of vibrations as yours. That’s the very basic of being mesmerizing: self-love. Now to be mesmerizing to a man in a romantic context, there are the shortened five principles to abide here: 1. Stop getting ahead in your thinking. 2. Focus on your own happiness. 3. Stop waiting around for him. 4. Stop treating a man as your priority when you’re only an option. 5. Reward his good behaviors, stand up for your deal breakers. If you stick to these principles you are officially a high-value-woman that men seek for commitment and can’t afford to lose. Don’t you want to know the lengthy/detailed version of each principle? And there are also two other most important principles to make a man absolutely mesmerized by you and I will reveal them in the class, so get it and listen to it today and transform yourself and change they way he perceives you. One of the two is on how to handle triggers and hurt feelings and if you are always in the loop of roller-coaster of emotions that make you appear imbalanced and in the process you end up pushing him away, you really can’t miss this class. Work with me, the only coach on the net that give you consistent results day in day out, year in year out with proven and documented track record to back them up (it’s easy to claim this and that but to have daily testimonials is quite another) because what I teach isn’t gimmick and my own stuff isn’t in the way (since I have resolved most of my shadow issues and lost the self as the self is in the way of clarity and this is why coaches who have unresolved issues will project those issues on their clients exacerbating the problems instead of helping to solve them). It’s the route to personal fulfillment and happiness that will surely leak into every aspect of your life.
“I am listening your latest class ‘Seven Principles That Put Him Under Your Spell’ right now. I would like to thank you for your teachings. The more classes I get from you, the clearer it gets for me about how to have a peaceful life in general. The success I have following your teaching, goes beyond having relationship with men. Thank you so much Kat, I am really blessed.” ~Jill, British Vancouver
“I don’t come here often to share but I did last Sunday when I saw a pic of my ex with a new girl. Kat said, “It’s likely that he is with her but missing me. I’m telling you people, Katarina Phang is a genius. He started texting me this evening and said he misses me terribly and wants to see me. Now I don’t know where this will go but ladies listen to this woman. I thought I would never hear from him again. I have not seen him or spoke to him in over three months. Lean way back!!
Short version.. He broke up with me beginning of May. We were together for 15 mos. I stayed friend on FB with his parents. That’s where I saw the pic of him and another girl. I was upset because it was only 3 months post break up. I did not contact him the entire time. I just sent one hand written letter telling him good bye. Tonight he reached out and wants to see me. Now I want to do put him under my spell after listening to this class. So succinct and to the point, things I obviously haven’t done that brought me here in the first place.” ~Linda, Kansas
You can purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
43. Why You Are Friendzoned and How To Get Out The Friend Zone
Those of you who are confused why all of a sudden the guy you adore who was hotly pursuing you in the beginning is now treat you as if you were just a buddy? He doesn’t touch you anymore nor want to be intimate, even when you “throw yourself at him.” He’s just stonewalling and cold or just plain ignoring you. Find out the things you can do to reverse the situation to back where you once were. Do you know that a man follows his feelings when it comes to romance? It’s not about logic or what he thinks you should do. Logically he should be hooked on you because you’re so hot and sexy and so passionate in bed but often those aren’t why a man wants you more. And his feelings will be guided by how polarized you two are. I’m known in the business as an intuitive when it comes to understanding where a man comes from and ways to inspire a man’s deepest devotion toward a woman. This unique gift catapults me to the top of the niche with one engagement/week, AT LEAST! In this class I’m dissecting two cases involving two ladies in the group on why they’re feeling they’re being friendzoned and coaching them live on what to do. If you feel the same way, join us and let me coach you live as well. Brandi is too intellectual and Sally is to sexually forward (“predatorial”). These two insights dumbfound them thinking those are what men want. This class summarizes the FIVE things that you do that create a block to his romantic feelings and SIX exact steps to get out the friend zone and reverse it back to romantic zone.
“The insight I gained from this class that I lead with my intellect with men because I feel afraid they’ll reject me for it, but that depolarizes me from them, was PRICELESS! The other 5 steps to getting out of the friend zone will also be helpful in changing my dating life, but this one piece will make such a huge shift for me, not only with the guy I like who sees me only as a friend (right now) but also the other men I’m talking to and meeting.” ~Brandi, Ohio
“So this was such an amazing experience. Katarina Phang is professional, warm, to the point, and so easy to talk to. She was able to pinpoint my issues almost like magic. She described the mistakes I was making and explained what I was doing wrong, and more importantly how I could finally fix these ongoing problems I have been having with the man I’m most interested in.
She didn’t sugarcoat it but was so pleasant and like able to me! I’ve spent SO much money over the years on “therapists”…none of which can hold a candle to the results I got with Katarina!! I thank you so much for your insights and expertise. I know what I have to do and I feel confident for a change that I can actually do this. I know I can!!” ~Sally, New Jersey
Update from Sally almost 2 months later:“Katarina Phang, so the update I saw him yesterday at work and he couldn’t get enough of me. I’m leaning back doing my thing. He calls me into his office to tell me something “that cannot leave this room, between you and me only, promise”??He goes on to tell me something very personal about something that happened between him and a business partner. I listened and didn’t speak, at his request. All while making his points he is touching me, on the knee, on the shoulder. I stayed feminine and I think helpful. Later, he calls me in again, “ I want to explain this in a different way. “ So he goes on to tell me same story!!??! I already heard it. He made some different points but I thought it weird that he summoned me back.Super sweet again. Joking and fun. Then I had to IM him about something work related and he wrote back something that didn’t make sense, like a mistake or a joke. Still not sure so I ignored it.I am not going to get my hopes up since I’ve been truly losing interest but I have to say this whole thing is encouraging. Kat’s guidance is magic and has made me so normal again.
No more clinging and crazy. No more seducing and desperate energy. Even if he keeps me in the friend zone at least I can say I am so much more high value and I am proud of myself!! 😘❤️” ~Sally, New Jersey
“I was there live, best class so far.❤️🌹🍫” ~ Kathy, Michigan
“Awesome class as usual, really help me to realize that I am a natural masculine woman, so changing it needs a lot of reminding and practicing. Thank you, Kat.” ~Jihane, Canada
You can purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
44. How to Keep The Pursuit On In A Long Term Relationship Or After You Live Together
A lot of you come to me confused. You got him to claim you and not only that he asked you to move in. Then the hot relationship all of a sudden becomes something of a ho-hum. You feel that you have lost the mystery and just go along with the predictability of a couple sharing a life together: no more mystery, no more excitement, no more butterflies in the stomach. He seems to stop pursuing you because… hey you’re there in his face all the time, what is there to pursue, right?😑 And you become insecure again. You want to feel desired again. These days he seems so engrossed in his newspaper, laptop or projects. You thought it would be a happy ever after from now on! You feel cheated.😮 Because you express your unhappiness often he gets defensive and you argue a lot more now or you stuff your feelings and as the result you feel unappreciated even more. Can you relate? I bet you can. So in this class I’ll help you deal with that.
“Thank you, Kat. Just when I thought there was nothing more to learn you proved me wrong once again. I always thought once in relationship you can pretty much do anything, discuss anything without him having to have doubts about his love and commitment to me. That’s why we always seem to have awkward time when I want him to show me how much he cares (woes and pursues me) because that’s what he *should* do as a man in relationship. Now I realize “should” is an illusion. You either inspire him or you don’t. And your behavior and energy very much defines how he feels about you or whether or not he wants to do romantic things and often it will just happen when you least expect it.” ~Jemima, Texas
You can purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $369/hr today and it will keep going up!):
45. When He Pulls Away, Comes And Goes or Blows Hot and Cold, What To Do?
I’ve been overwhelmed by the response over this class and request to listen to it from the day it was conducted and a few days after. The mystery of flaky men is solved ONCE and FOR ALL and you will never have to question him/yourself anymore when this happens. This is number one repeated theme in our support groups. Sometimes the reason why he acts this way if because of your masculine, pushy and demanding behaviors and the inability to tolerate grey areas in the beginning of dating. Some other times it’s perhaps nothing to do with you. It’s just he’s so flaky. So how do you know or do you know which is which? This class dissects this common behavior of men to pieces along with the response, what to say or not to say in such situations or how to treat a man like this without spending an ounce of energy on him anymore ONCE and FOR ALL! You will learn 7 reasons why men do flaky things, the understanding of which will calm you down when you face this kind of common behavior in men. And you will also understand why rotation works on two seemingly contradictory levels that trigger a strong attraction toward you. Find out what those two are (it’s a must so a guy can deeply bond to you).
“Katarina Phang, it was a great audio.👍 I wish this audio was available a few years ago, I definitely would have reacted differently after the guy I was interested in pulled back. I am in that place of let him be, as I build my rotation. This audio should be up there on your must have list next to or before the “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment” audio.” ~Carmella, North Carolina
“Ladies, this class was awesome! The importance of rotation finally clicked- I never completely understood all angles previously. And now I have a rotation 🙂
Katarina Phang, follow-up question: when a guy withdraws/pulls away, isn’t he worried that she will meet another guy during his absence? Or does whatever stress/anxiety is going on in his brain override that thought?” ~Katie, Amsterdam
46. How To Save Your Relationship/Marriage Alone Even If He Has Checked Out
Some relationships/marriages are worth salvaging, even when they look so hopeless. And I’m a believer that it takes one person to save a relationship and I have proven it with my track record of helping thousands of women amend their broken relationships/marriages by simply transforming themselves and shifting their energies in the process.
When one person changes in the relationship, the other has to change as well to adjust to the new position. When a partner isn’t being resisted, whatever poses as stumbling block will eventually dissolve.
Even when the divorce happens after all, the transformation that happens won’t be for nothing.
Why does relationship become hard over time? It’s because of accumulation and resistance.
What is accumulation? Accumulation of the piling of experiences that typically involve unresolved issues and hurt feelings.
How does accumulation happen? It happens because most people don’t die to the past. They either live in the past of the future, both of which don’t exist, thus are illusions.
Why don’t people die to the past? Because the ego lives in psychological time: which involves the past or the future. The movement in the mind space is resistance of the present moment. The mind isn’t really needed in the now so dropping the mind is really about to dwell and surrender in the glorious moment.
What is resistance? Resistance happens when there is a gap between “what is” and “what should be.” “What should be” is the play of the mind, it’s the resistance of the now. It’s what expectations are. And expectations are the mother of all heartaches.
The heartaches bring to accumulation because the ego will resist the now and dying to the past.
So between those two things: accumulation and resistance, marital issues are created and exacerbated over time.
Remember this: what you resist persists, what you embrace dissolves.
So when your partner/husband has checked out from the marriage, shift your energy by stop doing those two things. It’s hard but it’s doable as many of my clients have proven.
To tame the ego and its penchant to accumulate and resist is to understand and see how the mind works. My teachings center around this very fundamental transformational power.
Don’t miss this call, my classes will crack you open so your divine feminine can float to the surface.
I have never read other dating websites or followed other coaches so I have nothing to compare it to. I have spent a lot of time reading philosophy, theology and books about ego and other such topics. Kat’s teachings are more than just dating advice.
What I see, is a universal truth being applied to dating and relationships. It has been rewritten in way that even those not on a some deep spiritual quest can follow and it’s practical advice.
It works because it’s basically being taught how to tap into the matrix of your relationship. It requires complete letting go to work and that is difficult for a lot of people. I have witnessed people on spiritual quests in other areas of my personal life and resistance brings up all kind of negative emotions, like anger and anxiety. That’s the ego.
The ego is fear and it doesn’t want to let go. The closer one gets to having a break thru, the louder the ego gets. That’s the moment when you just have to give in and free fall. That’s the moment when you will “just get it.”
In Timothy Leary’s version of “The Tibetan Book of the Dead,” when feeling anxiety creep up, he suggests imagining yourself floating on a river. Give into the water and flow with it until the anxiety goes away. Water is feminine. That concept has helped me a lot in dealing with anxiety of my past. I could go on about this topic for a long time. I love philosophy.
And a quick update… My marriage is still better than ever and I’m blown away daily. I practice leaning back in my marriage. I don’t text, I don’t call, I don’t plan, I talk less and I focus on me. I receive with grace and I let him lead. The more leaning back, honey and non-attachment I practice, the happier we both get. People can say what they want. This stuff works .
Thank you, Kat.🙏 You were the missing link for me :)” ~Miranda, Philadephia
“He bought me this brand new trailer 2 weeks a go. He said and keep saying that he wants to go everywhere and spent his life with me only, until we die. Then he asked me to put on my wedding ring again. I just smile… What d’ya think Katarina Phang and ladies, should I put my wedding ring again? Or wait until our 25th anniversary in May?? *wink wink nudge nudge* 😉 ” ~Rani, British Columbia
You can purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
47. How To Increase Your Emotional Intelligence So You Become A Magnet To Relationship
Here’s an incredible experience that Crystal had after first class of Journey Inward she just signed up for recently:
“Hi Kat!!! I don’t know how fast or slow the process is to be awakened but it probably took me less then a week and only from ur first class of the Journey Inward….
I literally got the “Awe-ha” moment and haven’t stop laughing and crying tears of joy since it happened!!!! Like I don’t know too much about Buddha until your teachings… I just always saw him at Chinese restaurants and that he was good luck and he was always laughing… but now I laugh like Buddha!!!!!! … like I TOTALLY get him!!! The veil is lifted!!!
God had reached down and opened my eyes, heart and soul!!! Before this I was broken, and I have a very close relationship with God and cried so many nights to him pleading with him to help me and he did!!
He had me revisit your products and Journey Inward sounded very appealing and I took massive notes… it’s a 2 hour recording but it probably took me a few days to get through it cause I wrote everything down and then I would research these mystics you would quote from and then I also compared it to my experiences and then it just hit me… the AWAKENING!!!!
And I get it!!! I’m AWARE!!! I
know the difference between the ego and the True Self!!!!! And I can literally sit back and see it all unfold right in front of me!!!!!! I would love to meet with you as I know you are awakened too or chat with you on the phone more if that’s possible?
I will write something for your website- a testimonial? Or talk on one of your recordings if you like? Anything to help you help others… I’m beyond grateful!!!! And I’m still educating myself as I am now in class #2 of the Journey Inward.
Now when I listen to your Leaning back workshop, to me it all makes sense of course but it’s also irrelevant because of the Awakening… cause the energy and the knowledge from the awakening already gives you the leaning back method built in!!!!!! And not that I’m disregarding it cause I just love love Love All your products …
I’ve bought 7 different products from you… but this AWAKENING has knocked my socks off my feet. I’m sooooo filled with happiness, laughter and joy!!!!!
Gratitude 🙏 Gratitude 🙏 ”
Then she wrote again after my response congratulating her: “OMG, girl u have no idea!!! I see it ALL!!!! Just the first class of the Journey Inward. I just started class #2 last night… well, between you and me, I have done Ayahuasca retreat – 14 sits so far… if you know what that is?? So my mind has been open… you just made everything come full circle. I think it’s why I got the “Awe-ha” moment so fast!!
And I’m sooo filled with gratitude… but I must say it’s a whole other experience when your awake and the people around you are not… like the Buddha says the Awakening happens everyday because you are in constant battle with the ego trying to take you to the dark side…
I feel like it’s a training ground everyday to always be present and always happy… I flippin get it!!!!!! So Aware and sooooo Awake!!!! Thank you thank you!!! And trust me I try to explain it to my close friends and they feel and see my energy and excitement but even though it makes perfect sense… until they are awakened themselves they really don’t know what your talking about!!! I can see why the Enlightened people could live alone or be far away from society because of all the noises and statics of the ignorant!!! And I can’t believe how easy it really IS to actually have the keys to happiness!!!! I’m like on cloud 9999999999999999 to infinity!!!
Would love to come to the retreat!!
And thank you, thank you!!!! And I thank God for helping get through this process and have the Freedom from ever suffering again… like I know I will never have a bad day agin!!!! I’m still in shock!!
And as far as the retreat… (pardon for the multiple emails) I just looked at it… if you want me to speak for an hour to explain my Awakening to the ladies cause I was actually dealing with an EUM at the time and we were on a break and he literally gave me the Dear Jane letter that it was really over is when it hit me (the Awakening) but by then I was already knee deep into your first class of the Journey Inward and at the moment it just clicked and I was Awake and then my actual reply back to his email… with eyes wide open and acknowledging his decision.
My reply literally flipped him and threw him off guard and this new found energy really threw him for a loop… now he wants to meet me for lunch this Wednesday to discuss my new Awakening. This new Self that I had discovered because prior to this he was over my Ego and I don’t blame him- lol!!! But now with being Awakened, I see the Abundance around me, and the fact that I can step back and see the Ego in full force, I now have the power to stop the reaction from happening and quiet the mind… now my value in the dating world is HUGE… cause what man wouldn’t want a woman now with out all that emotional baggage we carry with us.
The Awakening is definitely empowering to the Self I must say.
And Kat everything in Journey Inward that I have been listening to so far has already blown my mind… Thank you, thank you… yes I can’t wait to get through all of it… I listen to it in the car when I’m driving if I’m not at home taking massive notes on it… love love it!!!!
You are a Blessing!!!”
It doesn’t stop here either. Two days later, she PMed on FB: “Hi Kat!! I know we haven’t been talking by email… but guess what after my Awakening this past Saturday, I met my EUM ex boyfriend today for lunch and guess what? We are back together!!!!!😁😁😁😁😁
Thank you sooo much!!
You should make a journey Inward for MEN too cause now he wants to be Awakened!! Any ideas when you can do one for them??”
Jesus, I haven’t even got the chance to coach her on her breakup. 😀 This is insane!
So emotional intelligence is the subject of this class. I see too many women who come to me lacking in that one thing and that is why they continue to have problems in their relationships. The ego runs the show and the ego never feels good enough.
You really don’t want to miss this class. I go deep with every class giving you alternative perspectives that will expand your awareness.
Check it out for yourself, my classes will crack you open so your divine feminine can float to the surface.
You can purchase this powerful class for $92 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
48. What Is Authenticity? How To Be Authentic With Men?
A lot of women think being all expressive about their feelings from the get go are being authentic. Expressing their expectations is being authentic. Erecting many boundaries and barriers is being authentic.
It’s fine if it works for you! But problem is to many of you “being authentic” hasn’t really worked and meanwhile you are told to be authentic all the time.
Confusing, isn’t it?
What many of you don’t understand being authentic takes self-acceptance and self-acceptance doesn’t usually come till much later on the journey of inner work.
Still not getting it?
Being authentic is about first of all leading with feelings/intuition than thoughts.
Authenticity, as I mentioned above, is rooted in self-acceptance. Self-acceptance doesn’t mean the belief that one is perfect. No, on the other hand, self-acceptance is rooted in the knowing that we are all human and we are imperfect.
Perfection is an idea that is rooted in delusions. Delusions come from the absolute belief in duality: that there is absolute right or wrong, good or bad, then one begins to idealize everything that belongs to the good/the moral, and despise everything that belongs to the bad/immoral and as a result you become limp, you aren’t centered nor balanced.
Thus, perfection is ego.
Someone who is still ruled by ego will have a hard time to be authentic because they’re always in doubt about what they did or do. Their waking consciousness is narrated through their projection of thoughts.
Projection is not reality. It’s our subjective reality. So when you are being authentic through the belief of the objectivity or our subjective reality, the results aren’t going to benefit you and through repeated mistakes you will even doubt yourself more.
And once you aren’t sure about yourself and your own judgment anymore, you by definition can’t accept yourself, and thus can’t be authentic.
Still not getting it?
You don’t want to miss this class then. Be my next success story and you will if you follow what I teach you to a tee.
49. He Offers Me Friends With Benefits (FWB), How Should I Respond?
What is the Goddess response to this very common situation that will actually mesmerize him? Over the years I’ve been known to give very counter intuitive advice not found anywhere else. My keen insights on human nature have resulted in countless of success stories day in day out.
If you are in this dilemma, you can’t afford to miss this class. Once you listen to one class with me you’ll get hooked to listen to each and every class I have. That has been the experience of thousands who become my loyal following.
In this class I reveal seven UNIQUE steps you won’t hear anywhere else on how to deal with this the Goddess Way.
“Thank you so much for the FWB class. It is absolutely incredible. I love your teachings behind it and how much more relaxed and inspired I feel by it. What a wonderful class.” ~Joanne, Maui
You can purchase this powerful class for $97 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
50. How Your Unguarded Mind Creates Problems In Relationship And How To Navigate It
What is an unguarded mind? An unguarded mind is a mind that dreams, creates stories and unfounded assumptions, preconceives, obsesses, seeks (problems, solutions to problems it seeks and creates, fulfillment of the ego’s preservation needs), grasps, latches and attaches, broadcasts and projects. Because of this veil a person with an unguarded mind can’t perceive things as they are but always as they are. Because their perception is skewed the actions that result from such perception are also dysfunctional and causes a lot of frictions and sorrow.
Needless to say unguarded mind causes so many rifts and problems both in life and relationship.
The vast majority of people live under this predicament, hence the state of the world we live in in which conflicts abound (cause all conflicts stem from inner conflicts, from fighting our own unclaimed self).
Where does an unguarded mind live?
The past or the future. It latches (doesn’t die) to the past which is in itself a mere story from one’s own perspective that later (or in the reminiscing in the now) gets embellished with more stories (so you can imagine the compounded delusion). The mind is filled “knowledge” and experiences. It is structured and thus, unfree. It is conditioned to perceive a certain way (that’s what conditioning means).
It also grasps the future. What does it grasp? A better something: better life, better job, better relationship, more excitement, more stuff to accumulate. So it frets about what it doesn’t have or get. It’s in the constant anticipation of a certain future that makes it anxious. And through that veil of anxiety out of the thirst of the fulfillment of the ego’s needs it perceives the world out there.
Hence an unguarded mind is a mind that hungers and thirsts and is stripped of its capacity to perceive directly. It’s clouded with judgment and every piece of judgment is self-judgment. Self judgment is a lack of self-forgiveness. The lack creates the obsession to justify one’s actions and in the process one has to project the responsibility onto others in the form of blame and attack. Thus, all attacks are rooted in self-attacks because when one fully forgives and accepts oneself there is no need to defend and justify, hence to blame, project and attack.
You can’t miss this class if healthy relationship is what you’re after.
The reason my life is so easy peasy is because my mind doesn’t do that anymore. The projector is broken so it no longer broadcasts. My mind stays where I am and when it doesn’t the Witness catches it quick and pulls it back to the now so there is little chance for it to create (sob) stories that wreck havoc my life.
A stable mind creates a stable world because the outside world is merely a reflection of your inner world.
It’s an ultimate skill you can’t afford not to master (and very few humans even know the concept of) especially when there is someone who can teach it to you from direct first hand experience cause she’s living it.
“Yes, this is a class everyone is in need of because the unguarded mind is the root of EVERYTHING!!!! I have grown a lot, but even while I grow I keep adding new stories which I think are solutions to my problems, but are in fact still thoughts; still judgments!!! Thank you so much for shedding light on this! I hope people invest in this!” ~Michelande, Virginia
You can purchase this powerful class for $97 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
51. What Is A Rebound & How To Date Rebounding Guys Safely While He's Processing His Unfinished Business
So many of you come to me or the group being hooked on a guy who just got out of a relationship/long marriage or sometimes is still married and yet has to finalize his divorce.
In many of the cases the relationships with the exes aren’t truly over yet because breakups are rarely cut and dry. There will always be residual feelings around the old relationships and the exes. The ties aren’t fully severed yet.
And meanwhile you’re already knee or waist deep in your attachment to him. You have everything to lose and as such your neuroses are running the show muddying up the water even further.
It’s not that he can’t fall for you or he won’t be with you when the dusts settle, it’s about you not being able to respond to the situation in a measured and mature way that inspires him to bond to you faster and fall so deeply in love with you thanks to your high-value groundedness. I have actually helped many clients deal with their rebounding men who got cold feet and some of them are now married to the said men (one of them becomes a family as I’m their first son’s god mother).
So what is rebounding and why is it called rebounding? If you imagine a ball being dropped, what does it do upon hitting the ground? It’s bouncing back up, isn’t it?
So imagine someone who just hits rock bottom through the sudden or not-so-sudden end of their dreams. He’s like that ball hitting a rough ground…his whole system is in complete shock from the sudden crash.
He’s totally confused and in that unstable process to gain his center back by bouncing a few times perhaps before coming to his new center.
He’s bouncing up now (before going down again eventually) and with it he brings all his baggage that comes from the previous relationship. If his wife/gf is a controlling woman, he’ll be super sensitive to the same trait in the new women he comes across.
If his wife/gf cheats on him, he’ll be super suspicious of the same trait in you. If he’s married with kids, it gets even more complicated cause now the kids will be at the center of it all. There might be custody battle in the midst of it. Many guys think way harder to divorce when kids are involved. They might be separated and he might have moved out of their marital home but he’s dragging his feet when it comes to filing and finalizing his divorce. Not to mention the financial repercussion of a divorce.
Hence he will be going through depressive moments from time to time thanks to the grief. When he’s high he’s very loving and it seems to you hat you two bond deeper but then no…he’ll pull back again especially when you give signals that you want more or you try to make him move the relationship forward by initiating, asking him out, etc.
Bottom line is he’s in the process of healing himself and is not in a good place to jump in a new relationship because his judgment is way off and his emotions are all over the place. Often time he’s depleted emotionally so he’s in no good place to fulfill your emotional needs. How can he when he’s unable to give to himself emotionally either?
He’s doubting himself and his feelings. And just a little perceived pressure coming from you is enough to send him running for the hills.
And you are left broken hearted and anxious….simply because you don’t understand what’s going on. And your expectations and sense of lack are in the way for him to process his unresolved feelings.
This 90 mins class deals with 7 steps to deal with rebounding men. Only Kat’s Goddesses can end up with rebounding men (when the dusts settle) cause they know how to navigate this safely and most effectively.
“Katarina Phang, your rebounding class is amazing. So grateful for the insights. Makes total sense. I figured it had to do with energy more than anything…… now I just have to stop investing. I get hooked back into investing after we hang out and then I pull back….. so just have to clear my energy sooner rather than later!
It was a super helpful class. I highly recommend it. Like all of her classes I have taken, worth every single penny.” ~Meredith, California
You can purchase this powerful class for $97 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $399/hr today and it will keep going up!):
52. Are You A Codependent And What To Do About It
Are you a codependent? What is a codependent? A Codependent is someone who gets all their unresolved issues and unhealed wounds triggered constantly in the relationship that brings out the same in their partner. And it goes on and on in a feedback loop till one of them breaks the pattern by outgrowing their partner or ending the loop by changing themselves.
Say he likes to be lazy and watch TV all day or he has done it too often to your liking. It indeed can be annoying to see someone just lay around doing nothing all day while you are being productive around the house. You think he needs to change. You think you need to and can fix him so you start in the crusade to mold him into the man that you want.
What happens next? You argue a lot thanks to that.
Nothing changed. He’s still doing whatever he feels like doing, only now he’s resenting you on top of it.
You react to his displeasure with more “shoulds” and nags.
You argue some more. You break up…but days or weeks later you are drawn to each other again until he’s doing the very thing again or other things that trigger you take place.
The cycle continues. Neither of you knows how to end it. Yet neither wants to walk away either.
Sounds familiar, doesn’t it?
Unfortunately many of you are codependents and you end up in my group.
As I have always said your unconsciousness will bring about the unconscious parts of your partner. And two unconscious people in relationship create hell on earth.
But you can end that cycle. If you follow what I teach you’ll be the most functional human being you’ll ever know with very high EQ. And people with high EQ can’t NOT have a great healthy relationship. They’ll bring out the best or expand the consciousness in their partner.
This class spans 2 hours 5 mins which shows how much it resonates with so many of the ladies who attended it live so they asked so many questions. In this class I reveal 5 signs that you are a codependent and what steps you can take to bring them to awareness and thus heal them once and for all.
This is the longest class in the monthly membership and is certainly something you will have to add in your collection if you are a fan of Katarina Phang.
And especially, if you’re in a rocky relationship you can’t leave, this class is for you. Let me show you why you’re codependent and what you can do about it.
If you tend to mess up any relationship you’re in because you’re so explosive and easily perceive insults this class is made for you! You’re a codependent and as such you bring the worst in any guy you’re dating. Your unconsciousness brings about your partner’s unconsciousness and in turn soil the relationship with so many conflicts.
“Holy crap, Katarina, you’re on a roll, aren’t you? Just when I thought I had your best class there was always another one that competes for that position! There are so many aha moments in this class I furiously wrote everything down lol… Thank you for the gift of making me see my dysfunctions each time I listen to you. You’re a one-of-a-kind, a soul healer, the mother of all Goddesses…thank you, thank you.” ~Jillian, San Francisco
You can purchase this powerful class for $107 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $499/hr today and it will keep going up!):
53. Why Expectations Are Relationship Killers and How To Care Less
There are expectations and there are deal breakers. Do you know the difference?
I live life without expectations and as such I’m never disappointed in anyone or life. It’s a self-mastery skill that very few people on earth possess. Those who are most emotionally healthy live life without expectations but it sounds so elusive and counterintuitive, doesn’t it?
Everything I teach is so counterintuitive. A centered person is very counterintuitive.
You can’t afford to miss this class because most of you who come to me are so filled with so much restlessness that comes from expectations. And that sense of lack colors every interaction with your guy that kills his attraction for you.
As I always say as you care less, he’ll care more. If he doesn’t then you know where you stand. Clarity sets in.
My teachings give you CLARITY like no other so you always know what to do at any given moment. And if you don’t you just observe.
This class will give you the proper understanding why your expectations are in the way of healthy relationship from blossoming.
My classes are highly affordable (based on the instantaneous results they bring) as well as 💡enlightening and a small dosage of them is enough to catapult you into 💃Goddesshood and many actually get hooked and keep coming back for more month after month and year after year.
Don’t make the mistakes millions of women every single day and be that one wise smart woman who knows how to deal with any type of guys while enjoying being 💝adored and cherished🙏. No expectation is one of the skills you must master on the path toward Goddesshood.
My sacred teachings are the Last Resort when everything else under the sun has failed.👌
“Holy crap, Katarina, you’re on a roll, aren’t you? Just when I thought I had your best class there was always another one that compete for that position! There are so many aha moments in this class I furiously wrote everything down lol… Thank you for the gift of making me see my dysfunctions each time I listen to you. You’re a one-of-a-kind, a soul healer, the mother of all Goddesses…thank you, thank you.” ~Jillian, San Francisco
You can purchase this powerful class for $107 (Mind you my hourly coaching is $499/hr today and it will keep going up!):
Good news my romeo and I are back together. He invited me for lunch today. We talked and he told me he had to be tough in me for me to stop my nagging and appreciate him. He says he missed me as well. He also told me he is in the phase were he do busy and hopes I understand and be patient with him. Wants me to be his support. Thank you all for your support I thought I lost him but he just wanted me to get it together. When we met, he gave me a big hug and right away said babe..lol anyways its a relief. He will be traveling on the first for 2 weeks. This Sunday would have made it a month since we broke up. I’m glad.
I found Kat about 3 days after we broke up. The days I’m growing up. .lol. Thank you Kat.
You’re the best, Katarina.Bonnie, Texas